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You can either pass me and take notes.
You can come back to this as you work more into this part of designing your year.
The questions are, what consistently drains me that I have normalized?
What am I tolerating that no longer fits who I am becoming?
Where am I still operating from obligation instead of intention?
What version of me does my current calendar assume I am?
What would surprise someone about how I actually spend my time?
And here's an important reframe.
Misalignment, it's not a failure.
It's just information.
It shows you where your identity has already outgrown your design.
That's not a problem.
That means you're making progress.
Okay, step number three, it's make an identity level decision.
This is probably the most important part and the part that most people skip.
You are not making a goal.
You are not making a habit.
You're not making a resolution.
You're making a decision.
A decision that closes the door behind you.