Cassie

He was only 18 at the time.

Yeah.

That's what I was thinking.

So it's like there's so much time between now and when you come home.

I don't know.

We talk every single day.

FaceTimed a few times.

Sure.

Things like that.

He always talks about, like, when I'm home this, when I'm home that.

And I'm like,

That was kind of my thought, too.

Like, I have no reason to be in a rush.

Do I even go spend all that money to go there, stay there?

And then I wouldn't go.

I would have my expectations set too high.

are acting like you're in a relationship and it sounds like you're not looking outside of this connection you have with this guy which is i think a mistake yeah i think my fear is like being in a small town and knowing that my ex is so like you can't be with anybody else you can't talk to anybody else it's like okay well i'm not gonna go out and

try to meet people because he's just going to come for me no matter what I do.

So this is like, he has no idea who this person is.

Well, like come for me, like personally, like verbally come for me over text or call or whatever.