Cassie

So like if he found out I was going to Japan, it could just be like, it's not like me to go to Japan, but like there's no connection there.

Like they have no idea.

I mean, he knows I have the Japan guy knows I have an ex-husband, but for soon to be ex-husband, ex-husband has no idea about.

Yeah.

Yeah.

For now.

He'll be home.

Well, originally when I wrote in, he, I thought he would not be home till like December of 2027.

So I was like, dang.

And he was like, you could always come to Japan though.

I'm not coming home in between now and then.

Yeah.

And now he'll be home in December of this year.

that means so it's a lot sooner so it's it won't be in 2027 it'll be in 2026 okay so it's like that's only 10 months until you're back do i even go why are you going why are you thinking about going because i like him that's it i mean we have like you're not interested in seeing japan i mean i am i probably wouldn't go if it weren't for him okay what why are you having a hard time making this decision

Because it's like, I actually liked this guy before I ever met my husband, got married, anything like that.

Like, we had a whole thing back then.

Yeah.

Situationship, 21.

Okay.

And he's younger than me.