Cate

Yeah, you can't give ultimatums.

Yeah, you can't give ultimatums.

I think it's hard to.

I think it's hard to.

I think it's hard to.

And their actions.

And their actions.

And their actions.

Right.

Right.

Right.

Yeah. Like for instance, so with my mom, you know, I had to create boundaries in order to make myself feel comfortable and safe. And my boundaries with her is just don't drink around me and don't drink around my kids. If you're going to drink, let me know ahead of time and I'll say, all right, I'll come over. We'll get together next weekend or whatever. I'm not saying you can't ever drink. Right.

Yeah. Like for instance, so with my mom, you know, I had to create boundaries in order to make myself feel comfortable and safe. And my boundaries with her is just don't drink around me and don't drink around my kids. If you're going to drink, let me know ahead of time and I'll say, all right, I'll come over. We'll get together next weekend or whatever. I'm not saying you can't ever drink. Right.

Yeah. Like for instance, so with my mom, you know, I had to create boundaries in order to make myself feel comfortable and safe. And my boundaries with her is just don't drink around me and don't drink around my kids. If you're going to drink, let me know ahead of time and I'll say, all right, I'll come over. We'll get together next weekend or whatever. I'm not saying you can't ever drink. Right.

You know, because then that's me trying to control her.

You know, because then that's me trying to control her.

You know, because then that's me trying to control her.

And make yourself feel powerful in enforcing it. In doing it, yeah.

And make yourself feel powerful in enforcing it. In doing it, yeah.

And make yourself feel powerful in enforcing it. In doing it, yeah.