Cate

go through this adoption uh me and my girlfriend are you know like it's a huge yeah so everyone hated on us yeah i think you're right i think we wouldn't have been able to just emotionally and mentally grow from all of just not even the adoption trauma but just our whole childhood yeah i mean we had a lot to go through but i think the thing that makes me angry like two things i would say that make me like upset the most is that when people turn around and say oh you

you know, you chose Ty, Ty forced you to do this adoption and his mom did. For one, I feel like you're stripping me of the sadness and the hurt and the strength that it took for me to hand over my child that I so desperately wanted to parent. I would never be that weak of a woman to choose a man over any of my children.

you know, you chose Ty, Ty forced you to do this adoption and his mom did. For one, I feel like you're stripping me of the sadness and the hurt and the strength that it took for me to hand over my child that I so desperately wanted to parent. I would never be that weak of a woman to choose a man over any of my children.

you know, you chose Ty, Ty forced you to do this adoption and his mom did. For one, I feel like you're stripping me of the sadness and the hurt and the strength that it took for me to hand over my child that I so desperately wanted to parent. I would never be that weak of a woman to choose a man over any of my children.

Even to this day, if something were to happen, I would be choosing my children. You know what I mean? Yeah. um and the other one is is that do people not think that you wanted this child i mean honestly

Even to this day, if something were to happen, I would be choosing my children. You know what I mean? Yeah. um and the other one is is that do people not think that you wanted this child i mean honestly

Even to this day, if something were to happen, I would be choosing my children. You know what I mean? Yeah. um and the other one is is that do people not think that you wanted this child i mean honestly

certain things but you're you're carrying this baby i have no control over this right or you could so i mean but that's what mine that's what mine like blows my mind is to people for people first of all to think that i would choose a man over my child but then again for them to just think that you have no emotions or sadness or sorrow or any want or that i would give you some ultimatum that's insane

certain things but you're you're carrying this baby i have no control over this right or you could so i mean but that's what mine that's what mine like blows my mind is to people for people first of all to think that i would choose a man over my child but then again for them to just think that you have no emotions or sadness or sorrow or any want or that i would give you some ultimatum that's insane

certain things but you're you're carrying this baby i have no control over this right or you could so i mean but that's what mine that's what mine like blows my mind is to people for people first of all to think that i would choose a man over my child but then again for them to just think that you have no emotions or sadness or sorrow or any want or that i would give you some ultimatum that's insane

That's sick. That is so disturbing. And then for me to continue to stay with you over all these years and have other girls, daughters, and I always say, if you guys really were to think that I'm that type of person, that's disgusting because I teach my girls completely opposite. You know what I mean? And they know that.

That's sick. That is so disturbing. And then for me to continue to stay with you over all these years and have other girls, daughters, and I always say, if you guys really were to think that I'm that type of person, that's disgusting because I teach my girls completely opposite. You know what I mean? And they know that.

That's sick. That is so disturbing. And then for me to continue to stay with you over all these years and have other girls, daughters, and I always say, if you guys really were to think that I'm that type of person, that's disgusting because I teach my girls completely opposite. You know what I mean? And they know that.

Like, I would never stay in a relationship and let my girls think that that would be a normal, healthy thing.

Like, I would never stay in a relationship and let my girls think that that would be a normal, healthy thing.

Like, I would never stay in a relationship and let my girls think that that would be a normal, healthy thing.

And now I've gotten to a point where I know my last time addressing it. If you think that I am weak, I guess, and I guess believe whatever you want. Yeah. But, um, I was telling one of my friends the other day about this situation and I said, Eventually, it just gets to the point where I can say the truth and you can either believe it or not. I sleep good at night. I know my morals and my values.

And now I've gotten to a point where I know my last time addressing it. If you think that I am weak, I guess, and I guess believe whatever you want. Yeah. But, um, I was telling one of my friends the other day about this situation and I said, Eventually, it just gets to the point where I can say the truth and you can either believe it or not. I sleep good at night. I know my morals and my values.

And now I've gotten to a point where I know my last time addressing it. If you think that I am weak, I guess, and I guess believe whatever you want. Yeah. But, um, I was telling one of my friends the other day about this situation and I said, Eventually, it just gets to the point where I can say the truth and you can either believe it or not. I sleep good at night. I know my morals and my values.

I know the person that I love and I care about. That's all that matters to me. I'm sick of addressing it constantly. I'm just kind of like, this is my last time addressing it. I'm not a weak woman. Tyler wanted this baby just as much as I did. We both leaned on each other so much. through all of those emotions and the sorrow and the back and forth of planning, making an adoption plan.