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👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Yes, I want to attack.
I want to attack.
Yeah, I want to like do something about it.
Yeah, because sometimes you feel the need to defend your person, but actually it makes it worse for them.
So you got to ask them.
You have to almost kind of reaffirm with them.
Hey, I kind of want to call your motherfucking dad or your mom or your whatever.
And they might be like, please don't do that.
Or you know what?
Yeah, say what you want to say because I can't.
You know I'm not good with conversation.
You know I'm not good with setting boundaries for myself.
Right.
But I also feel like if I hear you set a boundary with your mom or whatever, and then I'm witnessing that boundary be either trampled on or threatened or you loosen it up.
Faltering away from it or whatever.
I'm not going to say – I'm going to be like, so why did that change?
I think just kind of checking in.
Like I saw you made a boundary with your mom.
And it didn't happen.
So what's going on?