Chandler

And I just had like this like moment where I just felt like, wow, I need to really be aware of kind of the privilege of like never having seen something like this before.

Like, I don't know if you had a moment like that while watching this video, but I just, I had never witnessed violence.

domestic violence until watching this video, really.

I mean, I guess I saw it ends with us, but a little different.

I never really seen it actually play out.

And it's like, I can't imagine living in a home where there's just really no boundaries and rules on what's going to happen.

I just feel like I want to have a moment of, I don't know, being aware of how terrifying that must be for kids that grew up in an environment like that and for spouses who are spouses of abusers and how scary and how horrible.

And I just, I only have like deepest sympathy for people who go through that.

And so, yeah, we can't have Taylor, Frankie, Paul,

A, on the cast of Secret Lives and B, on the show The Bachelorette, especially as The Bachelorette.

It's like it was kind of already a little bit silly to me to start with.

And now it's especially ridiculous.

Where do I even want to begin responding to that?

Because I, yeah, I completely agree.

I was very sobering to watch because it's a very it's extremely raw show.

And I think the fact that she is not hearing her daughter being upset.

She's not hearing the severity of the situation of like what's happening in front of her.

And she's not able to pull back or to, like there was just no reasoning that was happening.

And then you watch some of the body cam footage.

I don't know if you watched what came out today, but she is extremely drunk.