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And I saw the impact that had on, you know, not me to a certain extent, but definitely to my younger brothers and, you know, younger sisters. So it's the same thing, you know, I didn't want that to happen to my family. So it was just like, yo, in order to not be what my father was, had to be better.

And I saw the impact that had on, you know, not me to a certain extent, but definitely to my younger brothers and, you know, younger sisters. So it's the same thing, you know, I didn't want that to happen to my family. So it was just like, yo, in order to not be what my father was, had to be better.

Well, since I learned very late what he probably could have taught me early, I just, you know, started doing the work on myself and applying it to my everyday life. And it's been an amazing blessing.

Well, since I learned very late what he probably could have taught me early, I just, you know, started doing the work on myself and applying it to my everyday life. And it's been an amazing blessing.

Well, since I learned very late what he probably could have taught me early, I just, you know, started doing the work on myself and applying it to my everyday life. And it's been an amazing blessing.

It allowed me to give him so much grace because when I first started going to therapy, I thought that I didn't like my father because of how he did my mom. Really didn't have anything to do with that. It was part of it. But what it really was, like, I was upset because, you know, I felt like he disciplined me for things that he never taught me.

It allowed me to give him so much grace because when I first started going to therapy, I thought that I didn't like my father because of how he did my mom. Really didn't have anything to do with that. It was part of it. But what it really was, like, I was upset because, you know, I felt like he disciplined me for things that he never taught me.

It allowed me to give him so much grace because when I first started going to therapy, I thought that I didn't like my father because of how he did my mom. Really didn't have anything to do with that. It was part of it. But what it really was, like, I was upset because, you know, I felt like he disciplined me for things that he never taught me.

And it was like, damn, this guy, you know, he was very hard on me in a lot of ways. You know what I mean? But it was literally because he was dealing with his own issues. And so once he told me that and I found that out about him, everything changed. made perfect sense. I mean, everything from the infidelity to, you know, how he used to discipline me, everything made perfect sense.

And it was like, damn, this guy, you know, he was very hard on me in a lot of ways. You know what I mean? But it was literally because he was dealing with his own issues. And so once he told me that and I found that out about him, everything changed. made perfect sense. I mean, everything from the infidelity to, you know, how he used to discipline me, everything made perfect sense.

And it was like, damn, this guy, you know, he was very hard on me in a lot of ways. You know what I mean? But it was literally because he was dealing with his own issues. And so once he told me that and I found that out about him, everything changed. made perfect sense. I mean, everything from the infidelity to, you know, how he used to discipline me, everything made perfect sense.

So it just allowed me to give him a whole lot of grace. And I just, I wish he would have shared a lot of those things with me earlier, which is why I'm so big on sharing them with my kids now.

So it just allowed me to give him a whole lot of grace. And I just, I wish he would have shared a lot of those things with me earlier, which is why I'm so big on sharing them with my kids now.

So it just allowed me to give him a whole lot of grace. And I just, I wish he would have shared a lot of those things with me earlier, which is why I'm so big on sharing them with my kids now.

The people-pleasing came from when I was getting molested when I was eight years old. And the reason I know that is because when I was eight years old and I was getting molested, when I wanted to make the young lady stop doing it, she would call me ugly. And she would say I had a big nose. And she really just started to mess with me mentally when I would tell her to stop, right? And so...

The people-pleasing came from when I was getting molested when I was eight years old. And the reason I know that is because when I was eight years old and I was getting molested, when I wanted to make the young lady stop doing it, she would call me ugly. And she would say I had a big nose. And she really just started to mess with me mentally when I would tell her to stop, right? And so...

The people-pleasing came from when I was getting molested when I was eight years old. And the reason I know that is because when I was eight years old and I was getting molested, when I wanted to make the young lady stop doing it, she would call me ugly. And she would say I had a big nose. And she really just started to mess with me mentally when I would tell her to stop, right? And so...

I just let her do it because I didn't want to experience that. Like to me, the experience of being called ugly and saying I had a big nose and all of that crazy stuff, that was worse than what she was actually doing to me. And that's a psychological mindfuck too because it's not like it didn't feel good when I was that age, right? So all of that, that's where the people pleasing came in.

I just let her do it because I didn't want to experience that. Like to me, the experience of being called ugly and saying I had a big nose and all of that crazy stuff, that was worse than what she was actually doing to me. And that's a psychological mindfuck too because it's not like it didn't feel good when I was that age, right? So all of that, that's where the people pleasing came in.

I just let her do it because I didn't want to experience that. Like to me, the experience of being called ugly and saying I had a big nose and all of that crazy stuff, that was worse than what she was actually doing to me. And that's a psychological mindfuck too because it's not like it didn't feel good when I was that age, right? So all of that, that's where the people pleasing came in.