Chase Hughes
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So when someone is taking control of things in their environment, so like if I sat down here and I was like scooting these things back and kind of pushing them over, aligning them, it's unnecessary movement. So we're seeing a lot of unnecessary movement. Mouth covering is one of the first behaviors that we learn.
So when someone is taking control of things in their environment, so like if I sat down here and I was like scooting these things back and kind of pushing them over, aligning them, it's unnecessary movement. So we're seeing a lot of unnecessary movement. Mouth covering is one of the first behaviors that we learn.
when we are feeling the need to withhold information, not saying deceptive, but withholding information. So what do you think when, have you ever seen a kid drop the F-bomb the first time in front of their parents or something? They're instinctively reaching up to cover their mouth. So it's built into us. That behavior is built into us.
when we are feeling the need to withhold information, not saying deceptive, but withholding information. So what do you think when, have you ever seen a kid drop the F-bomb the first time in front of their parents or something? They're instinctively reaching up to cover their mouth. So it's built into us. That behavior is built into us.
So right after that little movement towards the beginning, you're going to see him pushing into his face. This is called facial denting. And this is a pacification gesture. And it's meant to kind of burn off excess adrenaline from a high stress question or a high stress scenario. And we see a lot more hand to head, hand to head, hand to head.
So right after that little movement towards the beginning, you're going to see him pushing into his face. This is called facial denting. And this is a pacification gesture. And it's meant to kind of burn off excess adrenaline from a high stress question or a high stress scenario. And we see a lot more hand to head, hand to head, hand to head.
And so all of those will factor up to a potentially very deceptive statement, but there's no deception when somebody's just saying, oh, I don't want to talk about that. You didn't ask me any direct question. I didn't give you any, or you asked a direct question. I gave you a nonsense answer or a non-answer. That looks a lot more avoidant than deceptive because deceptive would be absolutely not.
And so all of those will factor up to a potentially very deceptive statement, but there's no deception when somebody's just saying, oh, I don't want to talk about that. You didn't ask me any direct question. I didn't give you any, or you asked a direct question. I gave you a nonsense answer or a non-answer. That looks a lot more avoidant than deceptive because deceptive would be absolutely not.
I had nothing to do with it, right? So the avoidant, Look at that. My video was on the recommended right there at the end.
I had nothing to do with it, right? So the avoidant, Look at that. My video was on the recommended right there at the end.
There's one more thing here. What's that? Towards the end, this is called rapid reaction. So like if I'm looking this way and then you started talking and the moment you started talking, my head jerks over to you. So this is an orientation. It happens right at the three-quarter mark. So right when he started speaking. So he's kind of jerking his head back towards him.
There's one more thing here. What's that? Towards the end, this is called rapid reaction. So like if I'm looking this way and then you started talking and the moment you started talking, my head jerks over to you. So this is an orientation. It happens right at the three-quarter mark. So right when he started speaking. So he's kind of jerking his head back towards him.
So that fear increases the speed of our body. So if you think about the difference between... Increases the speed of our body. The difference between a chihuahua hearing a noise in the house and a Rottweiler hearing a noise in the house, how fast their heads come up and orient toward what's going on. A chihuahua is a lot faster, way faster, because they have to be more scared.
So that fear increases the speed of our body. So if you think about the difference between... Increases the speed of our body. The difference between a chihuahua hearing a noise in the house and a Rottweiler hearing a noise in the house, how fast their heads come up and orient toward what's going on. A chihuahua is a lot faster, way faster, because they have to be more scared.
So fear speeds up our bodies.
So fear speeds up our bodies.
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So there's a fear response in our brain. Yeah. So there were probably 10 or 12 little indicators there of high stress and high fear.
So there's a fear response in our brain. Yeah. So there were probably 10 or 12 little indicators there of high stress and high fear.