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He has a wife and kids, was emotionally involved with you while you were still in that relationship, has now said nothing for a year.

And even now, he didn't message you like, I need to see you before I go.

He sent a safe, neutral work message.

That tells you something.

Are we easy or are we just bloody overthinking it, Dolph?

That tells you something.

Finally experiencing chemistry, attention, and emotional intensity with someone else, of course that felt electric.

It's the contrast.

But that doesn't automatically mean that this is my person and I need to confess my love before he disappears.

It means there was chemistry, yes.

There were feelings, yes.

But he has ultimately chosen his life.

Ooh.

About confessing your feelings, I'm going to be very direct here.

Telling you how you feel right now is not brave.

It's destabilizing.

And what does it realistically lead to?

Best case, he says he feels the same.

Now you're both cheating again, emotionally or otherwise, with way bigger consequences.

Worst case, he pulls away.