Chelsea Handler

And it's a constant reminder to be to remember what you just said. That is not your path. You're on your path. Yeah. Like, if anything, use that as a motivator. Change that, like, drumbeat in your head that, ooh, I don't like that, they got that, or they got that. Change that drumbeat like, yeah, that's success. One more woman succeeding means more success for all of us. Yes.

And it's a constant reminder to be to remember what you just said. That is not your path. You're on your path. Yeah. Like, if anything, use that as a motivator. Change that, like, drumbeat in your head that, ooh, I don't like that, they got that, or they got that. Change that drumbeat like, yeah, that's success. One more woman succeeding means more success for all of us. Yes.

You know, you have to always change those kind of negative thought patterns around to be optimistic and to be hopeful. And it's so much more infectious to be optimistic and to be hopeful and to be happy about people rather than talking shit behind people's back and gossiping and all of the like small vibrational qualities. I've done that in my life and it has yielded the results.

You know, you have to always change those kind of negative thought patterns around to be optimistic and to be hopeful. And it's so much more infectious to be optimistic and to be hopeful and to be happy about people rather than talking shit behind people's back and gossiping and all of the like small vibrational qualities. I've done that in my life and it has yielded the results.

that weren't beneficial to me. You know, when you change your attitude and you change the way you look at things and that you want success for everyone. I want success for women and for people who are not, don't feel seen. I want everyone to feel successful in life. And when you spread that around, first of all, you see more of it.

that weren't beneficial to me. You know, when you change your attitude and you change the way you look at things and that you want success for everyone. I want success for women and for people who are not, don't feel seen. I want everyone to feel successful in life. And when you spread that around, first of all, you see more of it.

And you realize that it starts to infuse you with joy and happiness for others in a way which you were maybe unfamiliar with feeling in the past.

And you realize that it starts to infuse you with joy and happiness for others in a way which you were maybe unfamiliar with feeling in the past.

I'm early. I can't be on time even. I'm such a loser. My parents never picked me up from school on time. So I've never been late to anything as an adult because I just hate the idea of being abandoned and anyone waiting for me. I hate that. I find it to be, I'm always early. So yeah, sorry. I was way early. Do you feel like you have abandonment issues? Yes, of course.

I'm early. I can't be on time even. I'm such a loser. My parents never picked me up from school on time. So I've never been late to anything as an adult because I just hate the idea of being abandoned and anyone waiting for me. I hate that. I find it to be, I'm always early. So yeah, sorry. I was way early. Do you feel like you have abandonment issues? Yes, of course.

I mean, I've worked through a lot of them. And I don't have, I mean, I've had them. I would say now, no, I don't feel, I don't have a fear of abandonment. I don't have the same needs that I used to as a younger, like say in a relationship, a romantic relationship. I don't have the constant need for reinforcement or revalidation or reassuring. Are they coming? Are they coming?

I mean, I've worked through a lot of them. And I don't have, I mean, I've had them. I would say now, no, I don't feel, I don't have a fear of abandonment. I don't have the same needs that I used to as a younger, like say in a relationship, a romantic relationship. I don't have the constant need for reinforcement or revalidation or reassuring. Are they coming? Are they coming?

Are they, are they going to call when they say they're going to call? Are they going to do that? I don't longer attract people like that in my life. So it's not an issue. Yeah. And I don't feel worried about whether or not someone is going to follow through with something with me because I don't have people like that in my life anymore. Yeah. Yeah.

Are they, are they going to call when they say they're going to call? Are they going to do that? I don't longer attract people like that in my life. So it's not an issue. Yeah. And I don't feel worried about whether or not someone is going to follow through with something with me because I don't have people like that in my life anymore. Yeah. Yeah.

And like, and it just like, if I say I'm going to do something, I will do it.

And like, and it just like, if I say I'm going to do something, I will do it.

I always had this feeling like that I was going to have a big, loud life. And I just felt like, you know, the instinct and the knowing are two different things. Like you have a feeling, but you don't really know what it's going, how it's going to materialize, right? Like I had never heard that about Oprah, which I love. Yeah. And which makes total sense because I feel like she's our mother. Yes.

I always had this feeling like that I was going to have a big, loud life. And I just felt like, you know, the instinct and the knowing are two different things. Like you have a feeling, but you don't really know what it's going, how it's going to materialize, right? Like I had never heard that about Oprah, which I love. Yeah. And which makes total sense because I feel like she's our mother. Yes.

You know, in this earth, on this earth. She's someone I, you know, obviously look up to immensely. And I've always, I mean, almost every book, you know, I owe to her, like, because of all of her inspiration. So I love that you're talking about her right now. She's such a force of nature. And... When I was little, I just thought this isn't going to do it.

You know, in this earth, on this earth. She's someone I, you know, obviously look up to immensely. And I've always, I mean, almost every book, you know, I owe to her, like, because of all of her inspiration. So I love that you're talking about her right now. She's such a force of nature. And... When I was little, I just thought this isn't going to do it.