Chloe Shih

And then they'd be like, you think anyone's going to take you?

You think

you think um we are literally the best place ever like we did you a service like you no one's ever going to take you and i think that kind of thing does something to you when you're 23 like you're when you're so young and these are the first people you trust with your career and they're supposedly friends and they supposedly have your bag and there are many times when they say i trusted you trust me we're in this together and then all of a sudden they 180 and they powered

there's this weird power play and that's how you're treated that to me was there enough to be like you're shit listed because you do not talk to people who work that hard for you with you and you don't step on them like that

And I'm going to let people know that that's awful.

And I've had friends who work with this group and associate with them because they make a lot of money or whatever.

But I call them up and I'm just like, if you're ever going to invite both of us, I'm not attending because this is what they did to our circle.

And that is not that's not appropriate.

And I don't if we allow that to happen, if we witness it, we observe it and we say, hey, this person is socially OK, then we stand for that.

You know, do you understand what you're doing here?

You're letting the invisible people feel more invisible.

and i don't want to be a part of that do what you got to do i don't really care but this i'm not going to judge you but this is where my judgment is yeah and i think even opening that conversation i'm like actually really confrontational like surprisingly confrontational as a person um so i think that's the only way to like start conversations to let people be like huh well okay that this is this is where we start this is where we talk so that's one example um and then it became clear that they've done other bad things that are like

I think more in the, I don't know, in territories that I can't really comment on, but people were like, damn, you were right.

So I think speaking about that is really important.

I will tell you another time that I don't know if it's like, I shared this on my podcast a while back where I was in this like influencer dinner.

No, actually it was a birthday dinner and there are lots of influencers there.

And I was with, this is when I wasn't really big at all.

And they treated me horribly at that table.

They were just like, oh, why are you sitting here?

Like we have our own thing.