Chloe Shih

I, I, it's like that whole, um, uh,

You know how people are like, oh, I don't want to date a cheater.

I don't want to date a cheater.

And they ended up dating a cheater.

It's like that.

When you really focus on that color, then that color comes to you somehow.

That color becomes a possibility in your world.

And I think that was a big switch for me.

Like, oh, shit, I play victim.

And I knew it.

I realized that.

I was like, oh, all I do is trauma.

I talk about trauma.

And there's a certain level of processing that you should do for sure.

But then that energy does attract people who realize, okay, this is part of the equation now.

part of our conversation it's something we're going to bring up and tap into yeah so after that then I went the whole okay what is the other what is the complete opposite how do I move towards that direction and help let me make progress and that was a cool story to be on actually one of my mentors

um put me on the hero's journey type arc of maybe maybe this is how you should see your next future like you are not the victim here what does it look like to be a hero and uh yeah people will be annoyed but you know i think i am the priority right now like they're not gonna be responsible for my feelings like i have to be responsible for my space and that's how i i've enjoyed the journey thus far

Look at me.

Yes.

You got to.