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Chloé Hayden

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746 total appearances

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Like, I know that my mom and my dad and my siblings have to love me because they're like biologically programmed and they don't get a choice.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I've been taught my entire life, whether it's platonically or romantically, that anyone else would leave me.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

And any time I would...

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

get myself into a rut or do something that I didn't think was the right thing to do I would apologize for being a burden and every single time before I could even finish the sentence every single time I said that Dylan would say you're not a burden you're a privilege and he would say that so frequently that I don't feel like a burden anymore

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I think it was three years after we... Yeah.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Two years, sorry, after we started dating.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I wanted... Okay, so...

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I saw the emails.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Hey, like, we kind of knew.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Like, because Dil wanted to design a ring for me specifically.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

He didn't want it to be, like, you know, an off-the-shelf ring.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

We knew that it wanted to be, like, a very specific handmade ring.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

And so I knew.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I just didn't know when.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

And we were in the car one day and he goes, oh, like, the ring, like, the ring renderer's come back.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Like, have a look at it.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

And I get onto his phone and look at the emails and it was, like…

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

Hey, this ring should be ready for your proposal date on Boxing Day.

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

I was like... The ring looks great!

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‘Because of pretty privilege, people assume I'm not autistic’ with Chloé Hayden

The ring looks great!