Chloé Hayden
👤 SpeakerAppearances Over Time
Podcast Appearances
Like, I know that my mom and my dad and my siblings have to love me because they're like biologically programmed and they don't get a choice.
I've been taught my entire life, whether it's platonically or romantically, that anyone else would leave me.
And any time I would...
get myself into a rut or do something that I didn't think was the right thing to do I would apologize for being a burden and every single time before I could even finish the sentence every single time I said that Dylan would say you're not a burden you're a privilege and he would say that so frequently that I don't feel like a burden anymore
I think it was three years after we... Yeah.
Two years, sorry, after we started dating.
I wanted... Okay, so...
I saw the emails.
Hey, like, we kind of knew.
Like, because Dil wanted to design a ring for me specifically.
He didn't want it to be, like, you know, an off-the-shelf ring.
We knew that it wanted to be, like, a very specific handmade ring.
And so I knew.
I just didn't know when.
And we were in the car one day and he goes, oh, like, the ring, like, the ring renderer's come back.
Like, have a look at it.
And I get onto his phone and look at the emails and it was, like…
Hey, this ring should be ready for your proposal date on Boxing Day.
I was like... The ring looks great!
The ring looks great!