Chloé Hayden

And, you know, like everything, like your whole life is led up to this.

And I heard that and went, so it's all downhill from here.

I want that.

Yeah, like do I peak on my wedding day?

Yeah, I'm like, is that my peak?

Like is that it for me now?

And so getting married was really scary for me when I was thinking about it in those kind of typical terms.

But when I spoke to Gil and my therapist and my mum and when I actually thought about it,

weddings are actually like really not a big deal like in the in the nicest way possible weddings and weddings I think this might be a hot take but I think if your wedding feels like a big deal maybe you're not ready to get married yes if it's

Do you know what I mean?

Yeah, and also it's like –

you know, there's this whole thing of like, oh, after marriage, like it's like the lock and key.

And it's like, but I've, I've known that I've wanted to be with this man for my entire life since like day three of talking to him.

Yeah.

Nothing, nothing has changed.

And like all of our family and all of our friends knew that we were going to be together forever too.

So it actually like,

shouldn't be a big deal because all of those decisions were made forever ago.

This is just a celebration to celebrate that decision being made forever ago.

And going into the wedding day with that mentality and going into it with a, this is just a really big party where I get to choose the food and I get to choose the music.