Chris Fettes

So I finally got in. I'm doing it right now, actually. Oh, really? Yeah. Good for you. My second week, I had to get my food and my workouts for this couple of days while I'm here. Right on, man. It's awesome.

So I finally got in. I'm doing it right now, actually. Oh, really? Yeah. Good for you. My second week, I had to get my food and my workouts for this couple of days while I'm here. Right on, man. It's awesome.

Absolutely. They see people they look up to being optimized. They're like, fuck, I got to do that too. Yep. Back to your childhood. Yeah, so my father was in the Air Force, and we started moving around every two to four years. That was awesome, lots of cool different experiences, but then I developed this problem with validation.

Absolutely. They see people they look up to being optimized. They're like, fuck, I got to do that too. Yep. Back to your childhood. Yeah, so my father was in the Air Force, and we started moving around every two to four years. That was awesome, lots of cool different experiences, but then I developed this problem with validation.

Absolutely. They see people they look up to being optimized. They're like, fuck, I got to do that too. Yep. Back to your childhood. Yeah, so my father was in the Air Force, and we started moving around every two to four years. That was awesome, lots of cool different experiences, but then I developed this problem with validation.

One, because my stepfather, doing the best he could, but it's not the same as... It's not quite the same. He's doing the best he could, you know, but he's also a very stoic guy, right? So maybe... Part of the trauma was I resented boys, boys especially. I got two boys. I don't know, I have experience with daughters, so I can't speak to it much.

One, because my stepfather, doing the best he could, but it's not the same as... It's not quite the same. He's doing the best he could, you know, but he's also a very stoic guy, right? So maybe... Part of the trauma was I resented boys, boys especially. I got two boys. I don't know, I have experience with daughters, so I can't speak to it much.

One, because my stepfather, doing the best he could, but it's not the same as... It's not quite the same. He's doing the best he could, you know, but he's also a very stoic guy, right? So maybe... Part of the trauma was I resented boys, boys especially. I got two boys. I don't know, I have experience with daughters, so I can't speak to it much.

aside from nurturing for mom, they need validation from dad every day, right? So there's a bucket to fill every day. And it doesn't mean like, oh, I got to be at the baseball games, every single one of them in the bucket. That's not what does it.

aside from nurturing for mom, they need validation from dad every day, right? So there's a bucket to fill every day. And it doesn't mean like, oh, I got to be at the baseball games, every single one of them in the bucket. That's not what does it.

aside from nurturing for mom, they need validation from dad every day, right? So there's a bucket to fill every day. And it doesn't mean like, oh, I got to be at the baseball games, every single one of them in the bucket. That's not what does it.

It's not time around where, you know, because if I could be at those things and I could just be doing this and he does something and he looks over to see if I saw it and I miss it, The bucket goes down. Your dad's not really there. But now what's happening is that I'm paying attention, right? And maybe between stuff, I do some work shit or whatever. I make my ice cream posts.

It's not time around where, you know, because if I could be at those things and I could just be doing this and he does something and he looks over to see if I saw it and I miss it, The bucket goes down. Your dad's not really there. But now what's happening is that I'm paying attention, right? And maybe between stuff, I do some work shit or whatever. I make my ice cream posts.

It's not time around where, you know, because if I could be at those things and I could just be doing this and he does something and he looks over to see if I saw it and I miss it, The bucket goes down. Your dad's not really there. But now what's happening is that I'm paying attention, right? And maybe between stuff, I do some work shit or whatever. I make my ice cream posts.

but they do something, and just for that split second, they look over, and you're like, it's just a signal, you know? I saw, you know? And their bucket fills all the way up for that day. It just took that split second. So if I'm consistent with that, I can feel it in them that they're okay week to week, you know? And when I start to

but they do something, and just for that split second, they look over, and you're like, it's just a signal, you know? I saw, you know? And their bucket fills all the way up for that day. It just took that split second. So if I'm consistent with that, I can feel it in them that they're okay week to week, you know? And when I start to

but they do something, and just for that split second, they look over, and you're like, it's just a signal, you know? I saw, you know? And their bucket fills all the way up for that day. It just took that split second. So if I'm consistent with that, I can feel it in them that they're okay week to week, you know? And when I start to

be unbalanced because of my own addictions, because my habits or whatever comes back during stress, then that's the sign. Time to balance myself back because I just fucking missed this week. And he's acting up now. He's talking back. He's not listening to mom. And you just can see how it works. So the decision to get out of the Navy was right for me.

be unbalanced because of my own addictions, because my habits or whatever comes back during stress, then that's the sign. Time to balance myself back because I just fucking missed this week. And he's acting up now. He's talking back. He's not listening to mom. And you just can see how it works. So the decision to get out of the Navy was right for me.

be unbalanced because of my own addictions, because my habits or whatever comes back during stress, then that's the sign. Time to balance myself back because I just fucking missed this week. And he's acting up now. He's talking back. He's not listening to mom. And you just can see how it works. So the decision to get out of the Navy was right for me.