Chris Fettes

And like around like 7 or 8 a.m., I propose to her at my little spot just overlooking... It's called the never-ending sea or the endless sea, where waves kind of crash from all different directions into one spot, and it's just this crazy spot, you know, that tourists can kind of go look at and stuff.

And a little ways down from that, there's this little quiet old bench that I used to just go sit at, you know, growing up. So I took her there, and that's where I did it. She said yes, so...

And a little ways down from that, there's this little quiet old bench that I used to just go sit at, you know, growing up. So I took her there, and that's where I did it. She said yes, so...

And a little ways down from that, there's this little quiet old bench that I used to just go sit at, you know, growing up. So I took her there, and that's where I did it. She said yes, so...

That was good.

That was good.

That was good.

Dude, I just collectively, I think about the whole story and it's just keep, it's so hard. Even now, when we get disconnected, we have, you know, understanding each other's love language for sure. And then if it's not the same one, um, just learning how to be okay with doing things for the person towards it, towards what they need that, you know, like for her, it's like acts of service.

Dude, I just collectively, I think about the whole story and it's just keep, it's so hard. Even now, when we get disconnected, we have, you know, understanding each other's love language for sure. And then if it's not the same one, um, just learning how to be okay with doing things for the person towards it, towards what they need that, you know, like for her, it's like acts of service.

Dude, I just collectively, I think about the whole story and it's just keep, it's so hard. Even now, when we get disconnected, we have, you know, understanding each other's love language for sure. And then if it's not the same one, um, just learning how to be okay with doing things for the person towards it, towards what they need that, you know, like for her, it's like acts of service.

So the more chores I do, the more getting the kids where they need to be, all that stuff. She loves that. You know, for me, it's like affection and connection and intimacy, you know? So you go through times where it's so busy and you're like, man, we're so busy. It's so chaotic. And we don't put any effort towards giving them what they need. You start to blame each other.

So the more chores I do, the more getting the kids where they need to be, all that stuff. She loves that. You know, for me, it's like affection and connection and intimacy, you know? So you go through times where it's so busy and you're like, man, we're so busy. It's so chaotic. And we don't put any effort towards giving them what they need. You start to blame each other.

So the more chores I do, the more getting the kids where they need to be, all that stuff. She loves that. You know, for me, it's like affection and connection and intimacy, you know? So you go through times where it's so busy and you're like, man, we're so busy. It's so chaotic. And we don't put any effort towards giving them what they need. You start to blame each other.

You go, oh, I don't feel, I feel disconnected. And then you go, well, I feel disconnected because you haven't been doing these things. And you're like, all right, well, we got to reset that and then try our best to sustain it over time. But there's always going to be times where it gets off balance. You just got to, just like your soul, you got to bring it back.

You go, oh, I don't feel, I feel disconnected. And then you go, well, I feel disconnected because you haven't been doing these things. And you're like, all right, well, we got to reset that and then try our best to sustain it over time. But there's always going to be times where it gets off balance. You just got to, just like your soul, you got to bring it back.

You go, oh, I don't feel, I feel disconnected. And then you go, well, I feel disconnected because you haven't been doing these things. And you're like, all right, well, we got to reset that and then try our best to sustain it over time. But there's always going to be times where it gets off balance. You just got to, just like your soul, you got to bring it back.

You know, you start doing, start getting stressed out because it's what I want. It's what I'm asking for. I want the business, you know. I want my kids to thrive. They're busy. They're not sitting around. They're always busy. And that's stress. So you want that, but that means you got to put in work in between that with each other also as much as you can.

You know, you start doing, start getting stressed out because it's what I want. It's what I'm asking for. I want the business, you know. I want my kids to thrive. They're busy. They're not sitting around. They're always busy. And that's stress. So you want that, but that means you got to put in work in between that with each other also as much as you can.

You know, you start doing, start getting stressed out because it's what I want. It's what I'm asking for. I want the business, you know. I want my kids to thrive. They're busy. They're not sitting around. They're always busy. And that's stress. So you want that, but that means you got to put in work in between that with each other also as much as you can.

And especially when you start to feel that, you know when it's going on, you know, it's like, oh, I'm starting to feel like resentment or anger, even just a little bit. You're like, hey, and being able to talk straightforward about it. Like, here's why I feel this. And it's, you know, trying your best not to just like blame the other person. We can definitely figure it out.