Chris Harder

And we're able to do that because we've got this daily container where we're willing to address anything that we have to address.

So those are just a couple of ways that we've kind of grown into the people that, you know, they look at us today and they might say, oh, must be nice to have found another entrepreneur that understands how you tick and all that.

We were not those people.

We grew into those people together.

Yeah, individuality is so important in a relationship.

We have such independent lives.

I know on social media, they see us together a lot.

But for example, tonight, I'm going to the Bucks-Suns game with three other guys.

She's going to go out with some girlfriends.

It's so important for us to have separate lives.

We have separate businesses, separate friends, separate everything.

And of course, we also share a lot of sets of friends and share a lot of things as well.

But if you don't have those separate identities, you become very boring to each other.

And if you don't have those separate identities, everything becomes very monotonous.

You run out of things to talk about.

So I really think it's important to have those separate identities because then to address what you had just asked about, if I have outside perspective, it's easier for me to maybe steer her back on track

because of that outside perspective I had gotten, as opposed to just being in the trenches with her and getting no outside perspective or vice versa.

There's so many times where I'll ask her for counsel on something and she'll have a brilliant idea that she had because of the other people that she's networking with.

And had she just stayed in our own circle, she wouldn't have had that idea to share with me.

So it's crucial.