Christian Huff

Like none of them were engaged.

None of them were, I mean, some of them were seriously dating, but none were near engagement.

None were even close to getting married.

So for me, I also had to have people like that I could talk to that were in a similar thing.

And then for me, that was when mentors were huge to my pastor.

At the church I was at, I also had another older mentor speaking into certain things.

I had to realize that I could not expect my friends to give me something that they didn't have the framework for.

I couldn't ask for engagement advice or, hey, how do you – if they're single.

But I think I would do that and it would be met with this –

not great answer.

And it would frustrate me, but I had to get to the point where I realized I can't seek that from you.

I have to find someone else that has either been there or is in a similar situation or is married that can speak into this.

So the friendships are huge, but it's also equally as important finding someone that can relate to your situation.

And for me, I found that through our pastor, which was huge.

And it's fun, too, when your friends do end up going through it.

And then they're like, oh, I get it now.

Now it's like that with kids.

Yeah, so we got engaged in June.

I went back to Auburn in August.

So it was my senior year.