Christopher Curtis
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Podcast Appearances
You see, he stopped and he flipped it because he knew that she wasn't perfect. He knew he was doing horrific things to her. And we listen to these types of things because we have to make a decision. How long do we wait before we go inside? Like, is he just sitting there or is he actually doing that horrific thing?
And in becoming a negotiator, even in your own life, you're very, very careful with your own word choice. And often I'll find myself when I speak to people, there are certain words that I don't use. I just have excised them from my vocabulary.
And in becoming a negotiator, even in your own life, you're very, very careful with your own word choice. And often I'll find myself when I speak to people, there are certain words that I don't use. I just have excised them from my vocabulary.
And in becoming a negotiator, even in your own life, you're very, very careful with your own word choice. And often I'll find myself when I speak to people, there are certain words that I don't use. I just have excised them from my vocabulary.
And it's about β and positivity is also β like when I said sleep divorce, like I've caught myself because I don't like to attribute divorce to something that could potentially be positive. I almost β I don't almost. I commit myself to utilizing the positive form of speech whenever I possibly can. And it's incredibly important. It changes a lot of things.
And it's about β and positivity is also β like when I said sleep divorce, like I've caught myself because I don't like to attribute divorce to something that could potentially be positive. I almost β I don't almost. I commit myself to utilizing the positive form of speech whenever I possibly can. And it's incredibly important. It changes a lot of things.
And it's about β and positivity is also β like when I said sleep divorce, like I've caught myself because I don't like to attribute divorce to something that could potentially be positive. I almost β I don't almost. I commit myself to utilizing the positive form of speech whenever I possibly can. And it's incredibly important. It changes a lot of things.
Give me an example of that. So I don't use the word problem. Like I say challenge. Because then you look at things as a problem. Like who wants to see a problem? I'd like to see a challenge because if you overcome it, then it's just a challenge.
Give me an example of that. So I don't use the word problem. Like I say challenge. Because then you look at things as a problem. Like who wants to see a problem? I'd like to see a challenge because if you overcome it, then it's just a challenge.
Give me an example of that. So I don't use the word problem. Like I say challenge. Because then you look at things as a problem. Like who wants to see a problem? I'd like to see a challenge because if you overcome it, then it's just a challenge.
You can almost always, if there's a negative connotation to something, even when you go out with your mom to dinner, if you think about and listen to the words that you speak, you can almost always a positive way that you could flip it. Back in the day, I, it really is. It's fun too. When you think about taking that much.
You can almost always, if there's a negative connotation to something, even when you go out with your mom to dinner, if you think about and listen to the words that you speak, you can almost always a positive way that you could flip it. Back in the day, I, it really is. It's fun too. When you think about taking that much.
You can almost always, if there's a negative connotation to something, even when you go out with your mom to dinner, if you think about and listen to the words that you speak, you can almost always a positive way that you could flip it. Back in the day, I, it really is. It's fun too. When you think about taking that much.
Yes. And it means you care about what comes out of your mouth. You know, back in the day, I wrote a dating book called Mac Tactics. Really? I did. It was called Mac Tactics. The art, the science of seduction meets the art of hostage negotiation. In 2005, I wrote this book and it was about utilizing the, yeah, there it is. It's about utilizing language in the day. Yeah.
Yes. And it means you care about what comes out of your mouth. You know, back in the day, I wrote a dating book called Mac Tactics. Really? I did. It was called Mac Tactics. The art, the science of seduction meets the art of hostage negotiation. In 2005, I wrote this book and it was about utilizing the, yeah, there it is. It's about utilizing language in the day. Yeah.
Yes. And it means you care about what comes out of your mouth. You know, back in the day, I wrote a dating book called Mac Tactics. Really? I did. It was called Mac Tactics. The art, the science of seduction meets the art of hostage negotiation. In 2005, I wrote this book and it was about utilizing the, yeah, there it is. It's about utilizing language in the day. Yeah.
So it's interesting because it was more about, so Mac, I changed Mac from, from what most people think Mac is. And I changed it to method, action, confidence, and knowledge. I co-wrote it with my boy, Rob Weiser. Rob is like really the, I mean, Rob is the NYU dude, super smart. He's my boy. Like I was the, the content guy.
So it's interesting because it was more about, so Mac, I changed Mac from, from what most people think Mac is. And I changed it to method, action, confidence, and knowledge. I co-wrote it with my boy, Rob Weiser. Rob is like really the, I mean, Rob is the NYU dude, super smart. He's my boy. Like I was the, the content guy.
So it's interesting because it was more about, so Mac, I changed Mac from, from what most people think Mac is. And I changed it to method, action, confidence, and knowledge. I co-wrote it with my boy, Rob Weiser. Rob is like really the, I mean, Rob is the NYU dude, super smart. He's my boy. Like I was the, the content guy.
And so method, action, confidence, knowledge, and all of those were what we call the pillars of power. And conversation was incredibly important as far as method was concerned. And I, Minimal encouragers. So you know what a minimal encourager is? So minimal encourager and paraphrasing are two things that negotiators learn to master.