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Christopher Duffy

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
214 total appearances

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Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And part of that is because then there's a pause, a natural pause, which lets people fill the pause with their laughter.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And so you need that space that laughter can fill into.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And actually, even in regular conversation, if you look at where laughs happen, they so often happen as kind of this social lubricant that

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

fills the empty spaces and erases any awkwardness.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

Another piece of the math of comedy, this is one of the most classic comedy rules, is the rule of three.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

So a lot of really funny things are patterns.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And the simplest way to establish a pattern is you bring something up once, you bring it up again, and then the third time, it's a pattern, and it's the funniest time when you bring that thing up the third time.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

If you watch sitcoms, if you watch funny movies, you will notice this happening all the time, that something gets brought up once, it gets brought up a second time, and it's funny, and it's really funny the third time.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And again, for reasons that I don't think anyone can exactly pinpoint, it's not as funny if you bring it up a fourth time or a fifth time.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

It kind of has diminishing returns.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

So there's this really incredible maximum satisfaction rule of three.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

And then there's all sorts of other pieces of like comedy math for how what those three should be, because you generally want things to escalate.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

So like, hey, I'll see you at the store.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

Hey, I'll see you at your wedding.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

Hey, I'll see you at the president's inauguration.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

Right.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

Like those are three escalating things.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

It's typically funnier to go up like that.

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

But if you go too fast, then it's kind of

Something You Should Know
Powerful Ways to Regulate Your Emotions & What Laughter Does for You

the joke doesn't really make sense if you go say like all right i'll see you tomorrow at your house i'll see you tomorrow on the moon there's not really many many places to go from there right like what's more absurd than the moon so this is sometimes referred to in like the comedy math as uh you you want to take the local train to crazy town not the express