Christy Sue

So my girlfriend of just over a year now moved in about five months ago from her grandmother's who has, you know, supported her. For context, I'm 26 and she's about to be 25. I do have a career at the moment and currently pay all the bills. And it's kind of become a weight on me that she isn't really contributing.

So my girlfriend of just over a year now moved in about five months ago from her grandmother's who has, you know, supported her. For context, I'm 26 and she's about to be 25. I do have a career at the moment and currently pay all the bills. And it's kind of become a weight on me that she isn't really contributing.

So my girlfriend of just over a year now moved in about five months ago from her grandmother's who has, you know, supported her. For context, I'm 26 and she's about to be 25. I do have a career at the moment and currently pay all the bills. And it's kind of become a weight on me that she isn't really contributing.

Well, she works part-time. Back in February, she started a certification course to be a farm tech. Okay. And since then, she discovered that the certification alone doesn't get her very much in the job market. So she's working on the test, but it's kind of slow going now.

Well, she works part-time. Back in February, she started a certification course to be a farm tech. Okay. And since then, she discovered that the certification alone doesn't get her very much in the job market. So she's working on the test, but it's kind of slow going now.

Well, she works part-time. Back in February, she started a certification course to be a farm tech. Okay. And since then, she discovered that the certification alone doesn't get her very much in the job market. So she's working on the test, but it's kind of slow going now.

She just isn't motivated. I mean, it's not something that she feels that she needs to do or has to do. And I'm having trouble with that.

She just isn't motivated. I mean, it's not something that she feels that she needs to do or has to do. And I'm having trouble with that.

She just isn't motivated. I mean, it's not something that she feels that she needs to do or has to do. And I'm having trouble with that.

You know, we jumped the gun on that. I do agree. But the situation did also call for it. Her grandmother had the downsides and she was on Social Security.

You know, we jumped the gun on that. I do agree. But the situation did also call for it. Her grandmother had the downsides and she was on Social Security.

You know, we jumped the gun on that. I do agree. But the situation did also call for it. Her grandmother had the downsides and she was on Social Security.

You're still, you're not going to kick her out. I lived with my mother a couple years ago, but I decided I wanted more for myself. That's right.

You're still, you're not going to kick her out. I lived with my mother a couple years ago, but I decided I wanted more for myself. That's right.

You're still, you're not going to kick her out. I lived with my mother a couple years ago, but I decided I wanted more for myself. That's right.

That's the problem.

That's the problem.

That's the problem.

Well, the thing is I see myself in her from a few years ago. So I was, you know, in the same situation with my mom, but I had that realization that Unfortunately, I don't know how to help her come to that point.

Well, the thing is I see myself in her from a few years ago. So I was, you know, in the same situation with my mom, but I had that realization that Unfortunately, I don't know how to help her come to that point.