Cindy Murphy

And he walked in the door and, you know, I could tell he was a little off because he was like almost manically happy, you know. Of course, he met me, you know, just as he was coming to the door and I'm like, no, you need to leave. You can't be here.

And he walked in the door and, you know, I could tell he was a little off because he was like almost manically happy, you know. Of course, he met me, you know, just as he was coming to the door and I'm like, no, you need to leave. You can't be here.

Because I was so terrified that DCF, if they found out that he'd been in our house even for a short time, that they would take the kids and place them in foster care. So I was just going to be really rigid with their rules. And if they said he wasn't supposed to be here, I was going to adhere to that.

Because I was so terrified that DCF, if they found out that he'd been in our house even for a short time, that they would take the kids and place them in foster care. So I was just going to be really rigid with their rules. And if they said he wasn't supposed to be here, I was going to adhere to that.

Because I was so terrified that DCF, if they found out that he'd been in our house even for a short time, that they would take the kids and place them in foster care. So I was just going to be really rigid with their rules. And if they said he wasn't supposed to be here, I was going to adhere to that.

And then my husband walked in and he saw me, you know, sort of not really arguing with Tristan, but being real forceful with him, you know, that you've got to leave. And then he kind of misread the situation. And anyway, things kind of blew up and it became a problem. You know, Tristan's just kind of, you know, over, everybody was overreacting to everything at the moment.

And then my husband walked in and he saw me, you know, sort of not really arguing with Tristan, but being real forceful with him, you know, that you've got to leave. And then he kind of misread the situation. And anyway, things kind of blew up and it became a problem. You know, Tristan's just kind of, you know, over, everybody was overreacting to everything at the moment.

And then my husband walked in and he saw me, you know, sort of not really arguing with Tristan, but being real forceful with him, you know, that you've got to leave. And then he kind of misread the situation. And anyway, things kind of blew up and it became a problem. You know, Tristan's just kind of, you know, over, everybody was overreacting to everything at the moment.

So they did kind of get into it, which was unusual because they had a good relationship. They were really close and, you You know, Tristan just was not acting like he would normally act. And I ended up calling the police. The police came. And really what we wanted them to do that night was just tell him to leave.

So they did kind of get into it, which was unusual because they had a good relationship. They were really close and, you You know, Tristan just was not acting like he would normally act. And I ended up calling the police. The police came. And really what we wanted them to do that night was just tell him to leave.

So they did kind of get into it, which was unusual because they had a good relationship. They were really close and, you You know, Tristan just was not acting like he would normally act. And I ended up calling the police. The police came. And really what we wanted them to do that night was just tell him to leave.

Make sure that he understood that the DCF rules were just like a no trespassing order or something. I mean, it was a rule that he had to follow.

Make sure that he understood that the DCF rules were just like a no trespassing order or something. I mean, it was a rule that he had to follow.

Make sure that he understood that the DCF rules were just like a no trespassing order or something. I mean, it was a rule that he had to follow.

Two officers arrived at first. They separated. Tristan took him outside. One officer was talking to him. One was talking to us. Everything seemed really calm. The officer, in fact, outside popped his head in and said, everything's cool. We're just talking out here. Tristan was calm.

Two officers arrived at first. They separated. Tristan took him outside. One officer was talking to him. One was talking to us. Everything seemed really calm. The officer, in fact, outside popped his head in and said, everything's cool. We're just talking out here. Tristan was calm.

Two officers arrived at first. They separated. Tristan took him outside. One officer was talking to him. One was talking to us. Everything seemed really calm. The officer, in fact, outside popped his head in and said, everything's cool. We're just talking out here. Tristan was calm.

And we continued to talk to the officer, telling him the things that had been going on that we had observed, that we thought that there was something going on in his head. He was delusional. He was paranoid that we were really trying to get him some help. But what we need them to do today is just to tell him to leave.

And we continued to talk to the officer, telling him the things that had been going on that we had observed, that we thought that there was something going on in his head. He was delusional. He was paranoid that we were really trying to get him some help. But what we need them to do today is just to tell him to leave.

And we continued to talk to the officer, telling him the things that had been going on that we had observed, that we thought that there was something going on in his head. He was delusional. He was paranoid that we were really trying to get him some help. But what we need them to do today is just to tell him to leave.