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Cindy Murphy

๐Ÿ‘ค Person
411 total appearances

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Podcast Appearances

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And he knew that he would be able to have contact with them because we told him, you know, as long as you stay on your medication. and you're stable and you're not acting goofy. We want you to be part of their lives. We want you to be their dad. We're still their grandparents. We want to be their grandparents, but legally we'll be the ones with custody.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And we all felt like that was the best solution for getting the Department of Children's Family Services out of our lives and keeping the kids in a stable situation. So that summer, though, when he got out, he was doing really good. He came to all of Cody's baseball games. They were in frequent communication with each other.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And we all felt like that was the best solution for getting the Department of Children's Family Services out of our lives and keeping the kids in a stable situation. So that summer, though, when he got out, he was doing really good. He came to all of Cody's baseball games. They were in frequent communication with each other.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And we all felt like that was the best solution for getting the Department of Children's Family Services out of our lives and keeping the kids in a stable situation. So that summer, though, when he got out, he was doing really good. He came to all of Cody's baseball games. They were in frequent communication with each other.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, we'd go over and spend time at his house, especially with Colton, the younger one. Yeah, I mean, he was getting to be dad, and he was a good dad for most of that time. And then... I don't know. I don't know. I mean, it's, I guess, pretty typical for people to stop taking their medication.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, we'd go over and spend time at his house, especially with Colton, the younger one. Yeah, I mean, he was getting to be dad, and he was a good dad for most of that time. And then... I don't know. I don't know. I mean, it's, I guess, pretty typical for people to stop taking their medication.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, we'd go over and spend time at his house, especially with Colton, the younger one. Yeah, I mean, he was getting to be dad, and he was a good dad for most of that time. And then... I don't know. I don't know. I mean, it's, I guess, pretty typical for people to stop taking their medication.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And I think that's what happened with him because it was about October he got out and like in March and was fine through the whole summer. And then in March, we kind of started seeing the same symptoms again. It was like, yeah, there's that thing in my attic I need to go take out of my attic because they're recording me. And it was like, no, no, here we go again. And

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And I think that's what happened with him because it was about October he got out and like in March and was fine through the whole summer. And then in March, we kind of started seeing the same symptoms again. It was like, yeah, there's that thing in my attic I need to go take out of my attic because they're recording me. And it was like, no, no, here we go again. And

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

And I think that's what happened with him because it was about October he got out and like in March and was fine through the whole summer. And then in March, we kind of started seeing the same symptoms again. It was like, yeah, there's that thing in my attic I need to go take out of my attic because they're recording me. And it was like, no, no, here we go again. And

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, people who have schizophrenia, they tend to not acknowledge that they have mental illness. There's, yeah, there's a word for that. I'm not sure if I pronounced it right.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, people who have schizophrenia, they tend to not acknowledge that they have mental illness. There's, yeah, there's a word for that. I'm not sure if I pronounced it right.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

You know, people who have schizophrenia, they tend to not acknowledge that they have mental illness. There's, yeah, there's a word for that. I'm not sure if I pronounced it right.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Yes. It's hard to pronounce. It's hard to remember. But it's very typical, very, very common with people with schizophrenia to feel like, convince themselves they're not ill.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Yes. It's hard to pronounce. It's hard to remember. But it's very typical, very, very common with people with schizophrenia to feel like, convince themselves they're not ill.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Yes. It's hard to pronounce. It's hard to remember. But it's very typical, very, very common with people with schizophrenia to feel like, convince themselves they're not ill.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Well, we were trying to get help again. Of course, I had not stopped trying to get help or trying to educate myself. As soon as we had that diagnosis that he had schizophrenia, of course, I started going online and trying to learn everything that I could about the illness and how to help him and how to talk to him and all that kind of stuff. I even went to the behavioral center.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Well, we were trying to get help again. Of course, I had not stopped trying to get help or trying to educate myself. As soon as we had that diagnosis that he had schizophrenia, of course, I started going online and trying to learn everything that I could about the illness and how to help him and how to talk to him and all that kind of stuff. I even went to the behavioral center.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

Well, we were trying to get help again. Of course, I had not stopped trying to get help or trying to educate myself. As soon as we had that diagnosis that he had schizophrenia, of course, I started going online and trying to learn everything that I could about the illness and how to help him and how to talk to him and all that kind of stuff. I even went to the behavioral center.

Tony Mantor: Why Not Me ?
Cindee Murphy: When the System Fails:Tristan Murphy's Story Changes Florida Law

We only have really one here in town. It's the one that had given him his medication. Just to see if my husband and I could meet with somebody there who could explain to us, you know, how we could help him, what we could do to keep him on medication. And they just wouldn't talk to us. You know, the HIPAA rules or they just, it was a big wall.