Clare Stephens

But I realised how many snap judgements we make day to day about what certain behaviours mean about a person.

And I went on the hunt for lots of examples, and I just have to shout out there was a Cosmopolitan article from 2015, and the number one example on the list was people who don't get all the fuss about Nando's.

The reason for the fuss about Nando's is just so obvious.

Like I have a friend who lives near a Nando's and I'm like...

oh my God, you live near Nando's.

And she's like, oh, I've never really thought about it.

I'm like, what?

Yeah.

I'm like, that's just absolutely bizarre.

So here are some from the original Reddit thread.

People who talk openly about not liking children, that's somebody you don't, you know, and not like people who wouldn't like children of their own completely understand, but not liking children is very like

We were all a child once.

Yeah.

Men with a crazy ex, goes without saying.

People who give you a nickname too quickly or who demand you use a really eccentric nickname for them.

That level of familiarity where you're like, I'm not there with you.

I know.

Anyone who uses my name more than twice in a conversation because it's a trick from how to win friends and influence people.

Yes, it is such a good trick.

I'm smart enough to know this.