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I think it's brilliant. You know, instead of focusing on what the other person is doing or not doing, it's about taking ownership and becoming an active participant in the relationship.

Ooh, the friendship audit. I love this.

Ooh, the friendship audit. I love this.

I have. I have. It's so insightful. You know, it involved taking a close look at your friendships and asking some honest questions. Do these relationships energize you or drain you? Is there mutual support and reciprocity? Like, are you both putting in the effort?

I have. I have. It's so insightful. You know, it involved taking a close look at your friendships and asking some honest questions. Do these relationships energize you or drain you? Is there mutual support and reciprocity? Like, are you both putting in the effort?

Yeah, I think that's especially true with longstanding friendships. Like we assume that just because we've known someone for a long time that the connection is automatically strong. But friendships, like all relationships, require attention and care.

Yeah, I think that's especially true with longstanding friendships. Like we assume that just because we've known someone for a long time that the connection is automatically strong. But friendships, like all relationships, require attention and care.

I think the key is to approach it with curiosity and honesty. You know, it's not about judging your friends or feeling guilty about your own behavior. It's about deigning clarity on the state of your connections and identifying areas where you might want to invest more energy.

I think the key is to approach it with curiosity and honesty. You know, it's not about judging your friends or feeling guilty about your own behavior. It's about deigning clarity on the state of your connections and identifying areas where you might want to invest more energy.

Exactly. Yeah, a checkup where you assess the overall health of the friendship and identify any potential areas for improvement.

Exactly. Yeah, a checkup where you assess the overall health of the friendship and identify any potential areas for improvement.

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Yeah, and it's a two-way street too. Like, do you feel like you're putting in more effort than you're receiving?

Yeah, and it's a two-way street too. Like, do you feel like you're putting in more effort than you're receiving?

Absolutely. And that's where the next tool comes in this.

Absolutely. And that's where the next tool comes in this.

Vulnerability scripts.

Vulnerability scripts.

They're essentially conversation starters that help you initiate those deeper, more meaningful conversations with your friends.