Codie Sanchez

Have I taken enough distance from this?

Have I explained my... Am I rushing because I know all this stuff and I think everyone knows this stuff about my sister.

That's what she wanted.

So I had to think before I gave feedback.

I had to think, okay, what is exactly... What does she mean by wanting feedback here?

And I said to her...

It's too short.

You get to do the longest eulogy at this funeral, right?

You don't need to... My mom was like, there's going to be 15 people giving talks at this giving eulogy.

It's like, fine.

You're the one who gets to go for as long as you want, right?

That's what you need to hear in that moment.

Yeah, well, the broader context for that is it's the difference between failures of overconfidence and failures of incompetence.

And failures of incompetence are where we don't know enough, right?

We didn't do our homework.

We weren't skilled.

We didn't have experience.

We were over our heads.

And failures of overconfidence are we actually, we were at, they're failures of expertise.

I am an expert.