Colin

Yeah, I was just, I'm calling because it's more specifically relating to my kids than anything, but just how to set boundaries and have the conversation of my mother-in-law regarding when she comes into town to visit with her boyfriend.

Okay.

Uh, I mean, just like when it comes to things like, so like she's had a couple, a long-term boyfriend as well before that they broke up.

And now she's got another boyfriend that she's mentioned about coming to visit town.

Not around my kids.

Nope.

Nope.

Yeah.

I agree.

Um, and it, and it's other things like, it's not just, it's not, I mean, we live thousands of miles apart, so it's hard to say you can't like, do we say you can't visit at all?

Do you say if they visit, you have to be in a separate hotel room?

How, like how, how do, what do we do?

At what point, though?

I mean, it can't just end there forever, though, right?

At what point?

And I guess my other followup to that would be then what happens as we live in

literally thousands of miles apart.

I don't understand the question.

So how do I, so like having like your, these conversations, which again, I think my wife and I are both in a, which we are both in alignment on it, but we're, we, we see, we only see

each other.