Colleen Reed

It was always these high highs but never consistent.

And so I would always cling back to like how we were with each other when we are good and not, you know, I wouldn't look at it big picture, if that makes sense.

Yeah, so we didn't live together until

I think like a year and a half after we got married, which is so strange.

No, I just, I really, for some reason, marriage was like, yes, but moving in together, whoa.

So I needed I had lived when I went on the show I lived with two other girls at the time So I had not even lived with by myself yet.

So I just said I was I thought and he would say as well What's the rush like we are we said yes to each other like let's just let's just take a beat and Let's both mature ourselves and then we'll come together and live together When we moved in together, it was a relatively smooth it was

Honestly fine because we had all he was always at my place I was always at his we rarely did sleep apart.

So It was just we had you know we would sometimes go To our separate places and change and get our stuff and then come back to each other or after a long day of work Just stay separately.

So it really in terms of moving in it wasn't a hard thing to do Do you think you would do that again?

I definitely wanna live with you before I get married to you.

would say let's do that let's do that first yeah um i just moved into my new place by myself and this is my first time i would say truly truly living by myself so i'm getting i'm like getting used to this era of mine and then you know hopefully down the line you know when i am in a relationship take it slow move in and then you know then get married you're gonna be like don't come into my space

I will say the first couple weeks, though, was hard.

Really?

Because I would just walk around in circles and do the dishes.

And then walk around in circles and then clean more and organize more.

I was like, who do I talk to?

What do I do?

Because usually even when we live, when we were kids,

broken up but still lived together we were very cordial the entire time so we would still talk and there was always like someone home like now it's or in the beginning it was hard to get used to that silence right for sure