Coltan Scrivner
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And importantly, because you can then make an assessment about what are my odds of being a victim, right?
Because as you mentioned, if it's like he was sleeping with the wife and then he found out that she was actually married and that's what caused it, or maybe he and the husband had some kind of shady arrangement or it fell through.
That makes you feel safer about hiking the woods.
But if it was truly just a random act of violence, that makes you feel a little more afraid.
And you are suddenly you can put yourself in that position and be like, wow, maybe I should think twice about doing this or doing that.
Or maybe I should carry a mace with me or maybe I should carry whatever with me.
Right.
Was he armed?
How did he do it?
This is gross.
I don't know.
I think it was a knife.
Yeah, it was a terrible, like sad story.
And again, being interested in a story like that does not mean that you don't feel sad about it.
So I think that's another thing people mistake.
This is terrible.
Yeah, I think people think about emotions as like singular things.
I feel happy or I feel sad or I feel afraid or I feel X, Y, Z.
It's not uncommon to feel multiple emotions, right?
You can feel curious about something, but also sad or disgusted by it.