Coltan Scrivner

Because you've experienced this or you have this secret knowledge.

And you've survived a thing I'm afraid of.

Or you know about it, at least.

Maybe you just have some special knowledge that you were given by someone else who survived it or whatever that might be.

Very lopsided, yeah.

Murdered, probably not, but they're very different people.

types of people who murder you if you're a man versus a woman.

If you're a woman, it's usually someone you know very well or someone you are trying to get to know well.

It's much more likely that a man is murdered by a stranger.

Yes, men murder almost everybody.

Yeah, that's the juice.

Humans face a really unique problem when it comes to dangerous social members.

So lots of social creatures have dangerous conspecifics, is what you would call them.

So a chimp, for example.

There's going to be an alpha chimp who's a jerk, who's going to beat up on you if you try to take the fruit that he wants or the mate that he wants or the space that he wants.

But that alpha chimp is going to be reactively aggressive.

He's going to tell you, don't take that, in his own way, with his fangs and yelling.

He's going to tell you in his own way,

You should probably not take that or else I'm going to attack you and I'm probably going to win.

Yeah, the gorilla will stand up and beat his chest.