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Courtney Balaker

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Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

We do a little bit, and it's very well spoken through Jonathan Haidt, actually. You can even track it back to the disappearance of Adam Walsh, which was a horrific kidnapping of a little boy from Sears back in the 70s and the milk carton era. And parents were basically told, your child will be abducted. and instituting this fear. I have it. I'm guilty of it.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

We do a little bit, and it's very well spoken through Jonathan Haidt, actually. You can even track it back to the disappearance of Adam Walsh, which was a horrific kidnapping of a little boy from Sears back in the 70s and the milk carton era. And parents were basically told, your child will be abducted. and instituting this fear. I have it. I'm guilty of it.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

I have huge problems not seeing my 10-year-old son at the park for four minutes. I panic. I'm just so used to that instinct to not let him be free range, not let him. To answer your question, yeah, I think a lot of it does come from parenting and parents wanting themselves to be comforted and comfortable.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

I have huge problems not seeing my 10-year-old son at the park for four minutes. I panic. I'm just so used to that instinct to not let him be free range, not let him. To answer your question, yeah, I think a lot of it does come from parenting and parents wanting themselves to be comforted and comfortable.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

So what makes me as the parent more comfortable is not necessarily the best thing for my child. You literally wire the brain when you are up against conflict, when you're doing something difficult, when you're uncomfortable, because you have to react to it, you have to adjust to it.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

So what makes me as the parent more comfortable is not necessarily the best thing for my child. You literally wire the brain when you are up against conflict, when you're doing something difficult, when you're uncomfortable, because you have to react to it, you have to adjust to it.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

And if we're just protecting people from being uncomfortable and doing hard things, then the brain just isn't wired to react to it appropriately. It's very dangerous. I think parenting is a huge problem. Hyde also talks about social media.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

And if we're just protecting people from being uncomfortable and doing hard things, then the brain just isn't wired to react to it appropriately. It's very dangerous. I think parenting is a huge problem. Hyde also talks about social media.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

Now, when Ted and I were growing up, we didn't have Facebook and Twitter and X. We didn't have our most embarrassing moments in our middle school years and our high school years on display forever. That matters, too. And. There could be a protectiveness, which I completely relate to as well from parents. Don't get your feelings hurt. When they do get their feelings hurt, it lives forever online.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

Now, when Ted and I were growing up, we didn't have Facebook and Twitter and X. We didn't have our most embarrassing moments in our middle school years and our high school years on display forever. That matters, too. And. There could be a protectiveness, which I completely relate to as well from parents. Don't get your feelings hurt. When they do get their feelings hurt, it lives forever online.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

There are a lot of different factors, but it's hard as a parent to say, yeah, my kid needs to fail. My kid needs to experience discomfort. You don't want to watch it, but we all did. We all grew up feeling uncomfortable. And that was really good for us. And we all failed and that's really good for us.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

There are a lot of different factors, but it's hard as a parent to say, yeah, my kid needs to fail. My kid needs to experience discomfort. You don't want to watch it, but we all did. We all grew up feeling uncomfortable. And that was really good for us. And we all failed and that's really good for us.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

What really struck us, as Ted mentioned, Greg is a very dear friend of ours. And we had known him for years until before he released this book with Hyatt. And we did not know that he was suffering from that level of depression. And we did not know he was contemplating suicide.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

What really struck us, as Ted mentioned, Greg is a very dear friend of ours. And we had known him for years until before he released this book with Hyatt. And we did not know that he was suffering from that level of depression. And we did not know he was contemplating suicide.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

We did not know he went to the lengths as detailed in the book and the film, as Ted mentioned earlier, going to a hardware store to buy the plastic bags and the duct tape to end his own life. It was shocking. And it was heartbreaking because we just didn't know that our dear friend was going through this.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

We did not know he went to the lengths as detailed in the book and the film, as Ted mentioned earlier, going to a hardware store to buy the plastic bags and the duct tape to end his own life. It was shocking. And it was heartbreaking because we just didn't know that our dear friend was going through this.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

And what we found as we started interviewing people, finding our young Gen Z interview subjects was really astonishing that so much of the depression, so much of the negative thinking that they were experiencing was so avoidable that And Greg, that's really what drew him to write the book with height. He's like, you know what was pushing me to suicide?

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

And what we found as we started interviewing people, finding our young Gen Z interview subjects was really astonishing that so much of the depression, so much of the negative thinking that they were experiencing was so avoidable that And Greg, that's really what drew him to write the book with height. He's like, you know what was pushing me to suicide?

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

The catastrophic thinking, the mind reading, all the things that we all do as human beings, which is normal. It's not generation specific. We all do it. The things that I was doing, I'm seeing happen on college campuses, catastrophic thinking, mind reading, us versus them. And I found my way out of it.

Ask Dr. Drew
How The Coddled Generation Is Being Set Up To Fail w/ Courtney & Ted Balaker (Producers of “The Coddling Of The American Mind”) + Lionel – Ask Dr. Drew – Ep 430

The catastrophic thinking, the mind reading, all the things that we all do as human beings, which is normal. It's not generation specific. We all do it. The things that I was doing, I'm seeing happen on college campuses, catastrophic thinking, mind reading, us versus them. And I found my way out of it.