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Cynthia Wong

๐Ÿ‘ค Speaker
75 total appearances

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It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

So that can kind of grow into something that's bigger than just the issue about parenting.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

It becomes something that's actually politically polarizing.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

Coming up... Children are really sensitive.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

They absorb emotional tones.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

So if you have an over-controlling tendency, it teaches the child that they can't trust themselves.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

Stay with us.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

Children are really sensitive.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

They absorb emotional tones.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

So if you have an over-controlling tendency, it teaches the child that they can't trust themselves.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

Perfectionism teaches them that I'm only safe when I'm perfect.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

And all this anxiety around the world and the fear that's being spread to parents, that anxiety also spreads to the child because it's teaching the child that the world is unsafe.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

So I think one thing to think about is this could be an emotional echo.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

This could influence the child such that our kids learn that anxiety is the price of caring almost.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

I can speak to it from the vaccine hesitancy point.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

When there's a lot of uncertainty in a particular time, let's say during pandemics, during COVID-19, for example, during Ebola, these types of events have sparked historically and even more recently.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

This sense of uncertainty and what we tend to see during those times are that conspiracy theories tend to abound a lot more, whether it's microchips in your vaccines or during Ebola.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

It was that it was, of course, manufactured in a lab and spread by pharmaceutical organizations.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

So what we tend to see over and over is that this uncertainty of the situation, some sort of big event, uncertain event is happening, it drives a lack of control, and then people become a lot more vaccine hesitant because of that.

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

And parents particularly,

It's Been a Minute
The fear & shame of modern parenting

are very driven by these fears because, once again, it's a combination of their parental identity plus all the uncertainty in the environment.