Dan Savage
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Like, if you're not going to fuck him, I'm going to fuck him.
Like, if you're not going to fuck him, I'm going to fuck him.
I mean, that's very gay, right?
I mean, that's very gay, right?
Somebody's got to fuck this guy.
Somebody's got to fuck this guy.
It's going to be one of us. And it's interesting that we see Jacqueline fuck Valentine after she has a hard time getting ahold of her husband, which she's told us, you told her friends that they're obsessed with each other.
It's going to be one of us. And it's interesting that we see Jacqueline fuck Valentine after she has a hard time getting ahold of her husband, which she's told us, you told her friends that they're obsessed with each other.
Um, and, and that's also interesting. And then we get that call in episode seven from the husband where it does seem like everything she said about their relationship is true. And so maybe there was some deep sense of insecurity in her that Valentine's attention at that moment, um, acted as a bandage for. But there's a reason these three fans ended up in New York, Austin, and LA.
Um, and, and that's also interesting. And then we get that call in episode seven from the husband where it does seem like everything she said about their relationship is true. And so maybe there was some deep sense of insecurity in her that Valentine's attention at that moment, um, acted as a bandage for. But there's a reason these three fans ended up in New York, Austin, and LA.
That as much as they liked each other and as much history as they have, they had to retreat to separate parts of the country or they would kill each other at some point. That they can get through maybe three or four days together before old tensions are surfaced and rivalries and jealousies. And all friendships involve some degree of competitiveness, measuring against each other.
That as much as they liked each other and as much history as they have, they had to retreat to separate parts of the country or they would kill each other at some point. That they can get through maybe three or four days together before old tensions are surfaced and rivalries and jealousies. And all friendships involve some degree of competitiveness, measuring against each other.
There's that quote attributed to Oscar Wilde, it's not enough that I succeed, all my friends must fail.
There's that quote attributed to Oscar Wilde, it's not enough that I succeed, all my friends must fail.
And not that they're all wishing for each other's failure, but they're all measuring each other clearly. And that's what's so beautiful about that sort of the evolving, breaking off into twosomes of that group of three friends, where then there's the trash talking of each other, which creates the bond between them as pairs.
And not that they're all wishing for each other's failure, but they're all measuring each other clearly. And that's what's so beautiful about that sort of the evolving, breaking off into twosomes of that group of three friends, where then there's the trash talking of each other, which creates the bond between them as pairs.
There's three different pair bonds there in that triad relationship, that triad friendship. And they're all nourished by that very feminine, female-coded thing of picking other people apart.
There's three different pair bonds there in that triad relationship, that triad friendship. And they're all nourished by that very feminine, female-coded thing of picking other people apart.
Yeah, but it's the people you love the most that you have the goods on and the insight into. Of course. And yeah, the more you love someone, the more you want to kill them, as they said in Avenue Q, right? And I do think that these three women do love each other, but they can't live in the same time zone for a reason.
Yeah, but it's the people you love the most that you have the goods on and the insight into. Of course. And yeah, the more you love someone, the more you want to kill them, as they said in Avenue Q, right? And I do think that these three women do love each other, but they can't live in the same time zone for a reason.