Dan Savage

And to everyone who wrote in or called this week to talk about sex, literally going, leaving the country. You know, if somebody had told me 20 years ago, hell, if somebody had told me 10 years ago that a reality show host slash serial sexual predator with a golden toilet would one day appoint a majority of the justices on the Supreme Court, I might have immigrated then.

And to everyone who wrote in or called this week to talk about sex, literally going, leaving the country. You know, if somebody had told me 20 years ago, hell, if somebody had told me 10 years ago that a reality show host slash serial sexual predator with a golden toilet would one day appoint a majority of the justices on the Supreme Court, I might have immigrated then.

But leaving, whether we're talking about leaving a shitty spouse or a shitty country, is always easier said than done. So I think we're going to do, I know I'm going to do, what most people in shitty relationships wind up doing. Staying and fighting.

But leaving, whether we're talking about leaving a shitty spouse or a shitty country, is always easier said than done. So I think we're going to do, I know I'm going to do, what most people in shitty relationships wind up doing. Staying and fighting.

If you're looking for a little uplift, but not a distraction, Amanda Marcotte, senior political writer at Salon, past guest on the Savage Lovecast, wrote a great and surprisingly funny and moving piece for Salon this week, headlined, A Cat Lady's Survival Guide for the Second Trump Administration. Marcotte recommends divorcing your Republican husband.

If you're looking for a little uplift, but not a distraction, Amanda Marcotte, senior political writer at Salon, past guest on the Savage Lovecast, wrote a great and surprisingly funny and moving piece for Salon this week, headlined, A Cat Lady's Survival Guide for the Second Trump Administration. Marcotte recommends divorcing your Republican husband.

Again, easier said than done, although some people... are doing it. She also recommends that women never date a Trump voter. She stopped short though, of telling women as some women are doing right now in the wake of this horrifying, especially for women election.

Again, easier said than done, although some people... are doing it. She also recommends that women never date a Trump voter. She stopped short though, of telling women as some women are doing right now in the wake of this horrifying, especially for women election.

And my heart goes out to you, to everybody out there right now, particularly the women in my audience, Marcotte stopped short of telling women to refuse to date or fuck men at all. Because for those of us who are exclusively attracted to men, Marcotte writes, a life without sex is a punishment. And the point of this is to punish sexist men, not ourselves.

And my heart goes out to you, to everybody out there right now, particularly the women in my audience, Marcotte stopped short of telling women to refuse to date or fuck men at all. Because for those of us who are exclusively attracted to men, Marcotte writes, a life without sex is a punishment. And the point of this is to punish sexist men, not ourselves.

But refusing to date Trump voters, that's an easy one. Don't waste a single moment of your one precious life on such men. Gotta say, I agree with that. And I want to re-up some advice I gave earlier this year on the show that seems relevant now.

But refusing to date Trump voters, that's an easy one. Don't waste a single moment of your one precious life on such men. Gotta say, I agree with that. And I want to re-up some advice I gave earlier this year on the show that seems relevant now.

Consider sharing because right now, hopefully not forever, but right now, it sure seems like the supply of good and decent guys falls short of the demand for good and decent guys. There are millions of them out there, tens of millions of good and decent guys out there.

Consider sharing because right now, hopefully not forever, but right now, it sure seems like the supply of good and decent guys falls short of the demand for good and decent guys. There are millions of them out there, tens of millions of good and decent guys out there.

But right now, there are more liberal and progressive straight women than there are liberal and progressive non-sexist men to go around. And the polling data tells us that straight women who are liberal and progressive do not want to date Trumpers.

But right now, there are more liberal and progressive straight women than there are liberal and progressive non-sexist men to go around. And the polling data tells us that straight women who are liberal and progressive do not want to date Trumpers.

Which had me thinking this morning that maybe the work I've been doing and others have been doing for the last couple of decades to familiarize people with open relationships and polyamory, to normalize open relationships and polyamorous relationships,

Which had me thinking this morning that maybe the work I've been doing and others have been doing for the last couple of decades to familiarize people with open relationships and polyamory, to normalize open relationships and polyamorous relationships,

Maybe we were, without even realizing it, kind of preparing women and good and decent men for this political and sexual moment we find ourselves in. Leaving aside right now the political fight that's ahead of us focusing on the personal struggles many of us are going to face, particularly straight women.

Maybe we were, without even realizing it, kind of preparing women and good and decent men for this political and sexual moment we find ourselves in. Leaving aside right now the political fight that's ahead of us focusing on the personal struggles many of us are going to face, particularly straight women.