Podcast Appearances
And I was like, oh, I have to have discernment because people have motives.
Because I don't have motives.
I just meet people.
I'm like, oh, they're cool.
I want friends so bad.
I just want everyone to like me.
I'm like, oh, friends.
I have no friends.
Do you?
Yeah.
You just got to.
I've gotten to the point where I'm really good at saying no.
But then sometimes I almost go to the other side of the scale where I'll say no too much just because I'm like taking my power back.
So I have to.
That's why I like one thing with healing, grounding myself before I make a decision instead of rushing to make one.
And also trying to make people feel more comfortable.
Well, if they're making you feel uncomfortable, then let them feel uncomfortable.
Like you don't need to.
Like if someone, instead of rushing to make someone feel better, let them give it space.
Let them feel weird and don't like try to caretake them or, you know, people please them.