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It's like the simple.
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It's this vibration of being authentic, like being yourself.
And here's the thing with being yourself is what if you're really just upset with someone and you're a people pleaser, then you're not being yourself, but you can actually feel a negative emotion and be yourself.
That's still authentic.
even if you're angry or sad you know you're not you shouldn't punch someone maybe punch a pillow but there's ways to have grace and still have negative emotions and it's just reminding people we're human we're allowed to have all the emotions they're all necessary right i think some people try to hide the bad ones yeah they're not aligned or there won't be abundant it's like once again we're not being ever going to be punished for anything if something bad's happening in your reality or negative is coming to you it's actually a call back to wholeness and love
to yourself so the more that you know if you keep meeting the same person you know let's say your day all girls say this like you're dating a narcissist over and over again i've had this happen too you're not being punished it's just resonating with you because that's symbolizing like your mom or dad or someone in your life that you're trying to work out that trauma with and until you heal it it's going to show up in your life because it's literally a call back to loving yourself and the more you work on yourself and love yourself you'll stop attracting those people
Yeah, I guess.
I mean, for me, it's weird because my dad was not a narcissist and I was attracted to narcissists.
But for me, it was more like I was adopted.
I had all these things where I didn't feel love within me for whatever reason.
My family didn't understand me.
And I was always looking outside for the warmth that I never felt within.
I always felt like empty inside, I guess.
Like I had a lot of empathy, but I didn't know what love and joy felt like because anytime I felt it as a kid, it felt like it was ripped from me.
So I think I always searched outside of myself for that until very recently when I discovered it's within.
And the people that give that the most are the people that make you feel most alive.
Those are the people that take you on emotional roller coasters like narcissists.