Danette

I mean, it's up to you, but ideal outcome does say for everything to go back to how we were before feels naive and unrealistic.

Everything is strained and changing so much.

I feel like I'm already grieving the loss of this relationship.

I know myself enough that I would be fine without a life partner, but do I want to be?

I don't know if I want to choose to be alone, but I also don't know how I can choose to stay without needing to change parts of our relationship.

At least take a break.

At least just take a break and see if something gives.

Does he get out of his own head and maybe depression that he's dealing with, caregiver burnout, is he willing to make a change rather than lose you?

But I would try at least a break.

Yeah, those things suck.

What were you going to say?

I feel like you're itching to say something over here.

Oh, there's plenty we have not figured out.

Yeah.

And let us know if you want to see any upcoming themes.

Summer's coming up.

Summer vacation.

College is graduating and things like that.

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