Daniel E. Lieberman
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Podcast Appearances
The technical term for it is the observing ego. If you're angry, you don't identify with the anger and say, oh my gosh, I'm so angry. You take a step back and you say, hmm, my brain is generating anger. Let's see what that feels like. Let's think about why that is and see what I can do with it. You just try to notice more. When are you having a good day? When are you full of energy?
Or when is the opposite occurring? The second thing you do is you do what you can to meet the needs of the unconscious mind. I was just talking to a gentleman who was telling me about this work retreat they had. And originally they planned to rent out some hotel ballroom and simply have it with a bunch of folding chairs, et cetera.
Or when is the opposite occurring? The second thing you do is you do what you can to meet the needs of the unconscious mind. I was just talking to a gentleman who was telling me about this work retreat they had. And originally they planned to rent out some hotel ballroom and simply have it with a bunch of folding chairs, et cetera.
Or when is the opposite occurring? The second thing you do is you do what you can to meet the needs of the unconscious mind. I was just talking to a gentleman who was telling me about this work retreat they had. And originally they planned to rent out some hotel ballroom and simply have it with a bunch of folding chairs, et cetera.
But at the last minute, they decided that they were going to spend a little bit more money and they were going to go out to this nature preserve and have it among trees and sky and clouds. And it made a revolutionary difference in the quality of the meeting. And it wasn't because they had any different presenters or because the topics were different.
But at the last minute, they decided that they were going to spend a little bit more money and they were going to go out to this nature preserve and have it among trees and sky and clouds. And it made a revolutionary difference in the quality of the meeting. And it wasn't because they had any different presenters or because the topics were different.
But at the last minute, they decided that they were going to spend a little bit more money and they were going to go out to this nature preserve and have it among trees and sky and clouds. And it made a revolutionary difference in the quality of the meeting. And it wasn't because they had any different presenters or because the topics were different.
It was because it was an environment that was conducive to stimulating the best parts of the unconscious mind. So I think that just like a horse trainer is going to exercise his horse and feed his horse, we should pay attention to the needs of our unconscious mind and try to meet them whenever we can.
It was because it was an environment that was conducive to stimulating the best parts of the unconscious mind. So I think that just like a horse trainer is going to exercise his horse and feed his horse, we should pay attention to the needs of our unconscious mind and try to meet them whenever we can.
It was because it was an environment that was conducive to stimulating the best parts of the unconscious mind. So I think that just like a horse trainer is going to exercise his horse and feed his horse, we should pay attention to the needs of our unconscious mind and try to meet them whenever we can.
It does, and yet how often are we tormented by desires that we know are bad for us? Many of us have had the experience of having an incredibly strong attraction to someone that we know would be a terrible partner for us, and we wish we could just put them out of our head, but we absolutely can't. Primitive desires like junk food often torment us.
It does, and yet how often are we tormented by desires that we know are bad for us? Many of us have had the experience of having an incredibly strong attraction to someone that we know would be a terrible partner for us, and we wish we could just put them out of our head, but we absolutely can't. Primitive desires like junk food often torment us.
It does, and yet how often are we tormented by desires that we know are bad for us? Many of us have had the experience of having an incredibly strong attraction to someone that we know would be a terrible partner for us, and we wish we could just put them out of our head, but we absolutely can't. Primitive desires like junk food often torment us.
or even more sophisticated things for example we may be very ambitious we we may want to get great prestige we might want to have a huge bank account while deep inside knowing that's not going to make us happy and it's going to distract our attention from the things that we find truly fulfilling
or even more sophisticated things for example we may be very ambitious we we may want to get great prestige we might want to have a huge bank account while deep inside knowing that's not going to make us happy and it's going to distract our attention from the things that we find truly fulfilling
or even more sophisticated things for example we may be very ambitious we we may want to get great prestige we might want to have a huge bank account while deep inside knowing that's not going to make us happy and it's going to distract our attention from the things that we find truly fulfilling
It's unfortunately part of the human condition for us to experience this split. We all know the saying, the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.
It's unfortunately part of the human condition for us to experience this split. We all know the saying, the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.
It's unfortunately part of the human condition for us to experience this split. We all know the saying, the spirit is willing, but the flesh is weak.
human condition is is this very strange combination of spirit and matter of mind and body the unconscious is much more associated with the body with the flesh we tend to associate ourselves with the mind and the spirit but it it's the fundamental reason why it's basically uncomfortable to be a human being And we often try to flee from this split, this division that's within ourselves.