Daniel Pink

It was intact, and it comes apart, or should have been intact, was intact, and it comes apart. And I think what's interesting is that, again, if you read story after story, the way a lot of these relationships come apart is not dramatic at all. There's no big fight. There's no screaming or yelling. It's just like this drift that takes place over time. And here's what happens.

It was intact, and it comes apart, or should have been intact, was intact, and it comes apart. And I think what's interesting is that, again, if you read story after story, the way a lot of these relationships come apart is not dramatic at all. There's no big fight. There's no screaming or yelling. It's just like this drift that takes place over time. And here's what happens.

It was intact, and it comes apart, or should have been intact, was intact, and it comes apart. And I think what's interesting is that, again, if you read story after story, the way a lot of these relationships come apart is not dramatic at all. There's no big fight. There's no screaming or yelling. It's just like this drift that takes place over time. And here's what happens.

If only I had eaten better, if only I had exercise, I wouldn't be out of shape and unhealthy today. So it's small decisions early in life that accumulate to really nasty consequences later in life. Again, these small decisions, like no single one is cataclysmic. It's like, oh, I ate a whole bag of Cheetos once. People don't regret that.

If only I had eaten better, if only I had exercise, I wouldn't be out of shape and unhealthy today. So it's small decisions early in life that accumulate to really nasty consequences later in life. Again, these small decisions, like no single one is cataclysmic. It's like, oh, I ate a whole bag of Cheetos once. People don't regret that.

If only I had eaten better, if only I had exercise, I wouldn't be out of shape and unhealthy today. So it's small decisions early in life that accumulate to really nasty consequences later in life. Again, these small decisions, like no single one is cataclysmic. It's like, oh, I ate a whole bag of Cheetos once. People don't regret that.

If only I had eaten better, if only I had exercise, I wouldn't be out of shape and unhealthy today. So it's small decisions early in life that accumulate to really nasty consequences later in life. Again, these small decisions, like no single one is cataclysmic. It's like, oh, I ate a whole bag of Cheetos once. People don't regret that.

If only I had eaten better, if only I had exercise, I wouldn't be out of shape and unhealthy today. So it's small decisions early in life that accumulate to really nasty consequences later in life. Again, these small decisions, like no single one is cataclysmic. It's like, oh, I ate a whole bag of Cheetos once. People don't regret that.

They regret eating unhealthily for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, and it adds up and it's hard to undo. So foundation regrets, if only I'd done the work. Third category, we got boldness too. We got moral regrets. Moral regrets are, if only I'd done the right thing. Again, you're at a juncture. You can do the right thing. You can do the wrong thing.

They regret eating unhealthily for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, and it adds up and it's hard to undo. So foundation regrets, if only I'd done the work. Third category, we got boldness too. We got moral regrets. Moral regrets are, if only I'd done the right thing. Again, you're at a juncture. You can do the right thing. You can do the wrong thing.

They regret eating unhealthily for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, and it adds up and it's hard to undo. So foundation regrets, if only I'd done the work. Third category, we got boldness too. We got moral regrets. Moral regrets are, if only I'd done the right thing. Again, you're at a juncture. You can do the right thing. You can do the wrong thing.

They regret eating unhealthily for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, and it adds up and it's hard to undo. So foundation regrets, if only I'd done the work. Third category, we got boldness too. We got moral regrets. Moral regrets are, if only I'd done the right thing. Again, you're at a juncture. You can do the right thing. You can do the wrong thing.

They regret eating unhealthily for a year, two years, five years, 10 years, and it adds up and it's hard to undo. So foundation regrets, if only I'd done the work. Third category, we got boldness too. We got moral regrets. Moral regrets are, if only I'd done the right thing. Again, you're at a juncture. You can do the right thing. You can do the wrong thing.

somebody wants to reach out okay so let's say you know like man i was such good friends with holla 10 years ago i haven't talked to her for so long i should really reach out to her and then i say oh man no but if i just reach out to her now it's going to be so awkward because i haven't talked to her for 10 years it's gonna be so awkward i don't want to do that and besides she won't care so i don't do anything and then two years from now i say

somebody wants to reach out okay so let's say you know like man i was such good friends with holla 10 years ago i haven't talked to her for so long i should really reach out to her and then i say oh man no but if i just reach out to her now it's going to be so awkward because i haven't talked to her for 10 years it's gonna be so awkward i don't want to do that and besides she won't care so i don't do anything and then two years from now i say

somebody wants to reach out okay so let's say you know like man i was such good friends with holla 10 years ago i haven't talked to her for so long i should really reach out to her and then i say oh man no but if i just reach out to her now it's going to be so awkward because i haven't talked to her for 10 years it's gonna be so awkward i don't want to do that and besides she won't care so i don't do anything and then two years from now i say

somebody wants to reach out okay so let's say you know like man i was such good friends with holla 10 years ago i haven't talked to her for so long i should really reach out to her and then i say oh man no but if i just reach out to her now it's going to be so awkward because i haven't talked to her for 10 years it's gonna be so awkward i don't want to do that and besides she won't care so i don't do anything and then two years from now i say

somebody wants to reach out okay so let's say you know like man i was such good friends with holla 10 years ago i haven't talked to her for so long i should really reach out to her and then i say oh man no but if i just reach out to her now it's going to be so awkward because i haven't talked to her for 10 years it's gonna be so awkward i don't want to do that and besides she won't care so i don't do anything and then two years from now i say

When we do the wrong thing, most of us regret it because I think most of us are good and want to be good. And when we're not good, we feel crappy about it. And so these are regrets that people have about, oh my gosh, the two bigger ones here, marital infidelity. I had a lot of people basically confessing on this world regret survey. It was like an online confessional.

When we do the wrong thing, most of us regret it because I think most of us are good and want to be good. And when we're not good, we feel crappy about it. And so these are regrets that people have about, oh my gosh, the two bigger ones here, marital infidelity. I had a lot of people basically confessing on this world regret survey. It was like an online confessional.