Daniel Priestley
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So let's make the game more fun where you get a four grand watch along the way and it's very similar to the one you want. And as soon as he was like, oh, cool. And he says to me, what do I have to do for the watch? I said, well, let's do these five things, which you can do in the next like five weeks. And if you do this, this and this, if you sign that, then you get to buy the watch.
So let's make the game more fun where you get a four grand watch along the way and it's very similar to the one you want. And as soon as he was like, oh, cool. And he says to me, what do I have to do for the watch? I said, well, let's do these five things, which you can do in the next like five weeks. And if you do this, this and this, if you sign that, then you get to buy the watch.
So let's make the game more fun where you get a four grand watch along the way and it's very similar to the one you want. And as soon as he was like, oh, cool. And he says to me, what do I have to do for the watch? I said, well, let's do these five things, which you can do in the next like five weeks. And if you do this, this and this, if you sign that, then you get to buy the watch.
And he's like, oh, this is great. So suddenly it was amazing to watch the lights come back on. Like he went from like not like being really down in the dumps. And I'm like, well, you've put yourself here because you've created a game that feels unwinnable. Yeah. Let's create a game where you get a win in a few weeks from now.
And he's like, oh, this is great. So suddenly it was amazing to watch the lights come back on. Like he went from like not like being really down in the dumps. And I'm like, well, you've put yourself here because you've created a game that feels unwinnable. Yeah. Let's create a game where you get a win in a few weeks from now.
And he's like, oh, this is great. So suddenly it was amazing to watch the lights come back on. Like he went from like not like being really down in the dumps. And I'm like, well, you've put yourself here because you've created a game that feels unwinnable. Yeah. Let's create a game where you get a win in a few weeks from now.
So his love language was obviously gifts, but it could be that your love language is getting a massage or it could be that your love language is doing some travel. So you've got to figure out what would keep you in the game. So that would be type one enjoyment. Or the opposite could be true. Your business might be giving you a lot of type one enjoyment.
So his love language was obviously gifts, but it could be that your love language is getting a massage or it could be that your love language is doing some travel. So you've got to figure out what would keep you in the game. So that would be type one enjoyment. Or the opposite could be true. Your business might be giving you a lot of type one enjoyment.
So his love language was obviously gifts, but it could be that your love language is getting a massage or it could be that your love language is doing some travel. So you've got to figure out what would keep you in the game. So that would be type one enjoyment. Or the opposite could be true. Your business might be giving you a lot of type one enjoyment.
You're a nightclub party promoter, but you don't think you're going to look back and be proud of yourself. There's a lot of hangovers going on. So then you go, okay, I need to link this to a charity. I need to raise money for a cause. I need to use my influence to do something of great meaning. I want to partner up with a foundation.
You're a nightclub party promoter, but you don't think you're going to look back and be proud of yourself. There's a lot of hangovers going on. So then you go, okay, I need to link this to a charity. I need to raise money for a cause. I need to use my influence to do something of great meaning. I want to partner up with a foundation.
You're a nightclub party promoter, but you don't think you're going to look back and be proud of yourself. There's a lot of hangovers going on. So then you go, okay, I need to link this to a charity. I need to raise money for a cause. I need to use my influence to do something of great meaning. I want to partner up with a foundation.
I want to use some of the money that we've got to do a fundraiser or this sort of
I want to use some of the money that we've got to do a fundraiser or this sort of
I want to use some of the money that we've got to do a fundraiser or this sort of
thing and then you start saying okay in what ways could i bring in type 2 fun like where i feel like i'm playing a more meaningful game um i'm making a dent in the universe i'm doing something of great importance something that i'll look back when i'm 80 and say i'm really glad i did that that was i'm really proud of that um yeah i wonder where most people's problems lie i wonder whether most people are bereft of type 1 or type 2 fun um
thing and then you start saying okay in what ways could i bring in type 2 fun like where i feel like i'm playing a more meaningful game um i'm making a dent in the universe i'm doing something of great importance something that i'll look back when i'm 80 and say i'm really glad i did that that was i'm really proud of that um yeah i wonder where most people's problems lie i wonder whether most people are bereft of type 1 or type 2 fun um
thing and then you start saying okay in what ways could i bring in type 2 fun like where i feel like i'm playing a more meaningful game um i'm making a dent in the universe i'm doing something of great importance something that i'll look back when i'm 80 and say i'm really glad i did that that was i'm really proud of that um yeah i wonder where most people's problems lie i wonder whether most people are bereft of type 1 or type 2 fun um
Getting back to kids, kids immediately gives you a diminishment of type 1 fun in the early days, but it gives you a lot of type 2. Suddenly you have the most meaningful thing in the world. You no longer have any quest for meaning. You now have a meaning. When you think about where you're going to be at 80, You're going to be talking to your kids and your grandkids and all of that sort of stuff.
Getting back to kids, kids immediately gives you a diminishment of type 1 fun in the early days, but it gives you a lot of type 2. Suddenly you have the most meaningful thing in the world. You no longer have any quest for meaning. You now have a meaning. When you think about where you're going to be at 80, You're going to be talking to your kids and your grandkids and all of that sort of stuff.