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Danielle Elliott

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Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I mean, for me, it's even like if I send a pitch, even if I get a response from an editor quickly, it usually takes me almost like two or three days to open it because I don't want it to be a rejection. And it's like... Sometimes it's an acceptance, but they want to have a conversation. They're like, can you talk later today? And now I've wasted three days. I'm like, oh, my God, I'm so sorry.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I mean, for me, it's even like if I send a pitch, even if I get a response from an editor quickly, it usually takes me almost like two or three days to open it because I don't want it to be a rejection. And it's like... Sometimes it's an acceptance, but they want to have a conversation. They're like, can you talk later today? And now I've wasted three days. I'm like, oh, my God, I'm so sorry.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I didn't get back to you. But it's like my fear of like, I don't mind putting things out there, but I don't really want to know how anyone reacts to it for you. I mean, that's I was going to ask you about work, too.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I didn't get back to you. But it's like my fear of like, I don't mind putting things out there, but I don't really want to know how anyone reacts to it for you. I mean, that's I was going to ask you about work, too.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I think that I'm so much more confident in work than I am in dating that the sensitivity doesn't get to me as much. I think it's also easier to not take it personally. I don't think there's a journalist in the world who hasn't heard, editors are swamped. Like, if they don't read your pitch, it has nothing to do with you or your pitch.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

I think that I'm so much more confident in work than I am in dating that the sensitivity doesn't get to me as much. I think it's also easier to not take it personally. I don't think there's a journalist in the world who hasn't heard, editors are swamped. Like, if they don't read your pitch, it has nothing to do with you or your pitch.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And there was also a couple pieces where, like, you can keep going back to an editor without seeming desperate in the way that there's so many tropes about women being desperate that, like, in dating, you're not going to, like, keep trying again with the same person. With an editor, you can try a thousand times and it might be what gets through. And I'm like, you don't know me for mad.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And there was also a couple pieces where, like, you can keep going back to an editor without seeming desperate in the way that there's so many tropes about women being desperate that, like, in dating, you're not going to, like, keep trying again with the same person. With an editor, you can try a thousand times and it might be what gets through. And I'm like, you don't know me for mad.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Like, this is fine. It doesn't show up for me in pitching. It shows up for me in publishing. Like, I... sort of just want to like hide under a rock for days after something comes out and I don't want to know what anyone thinks of it. I don't know what that is but I think it's like I think anytime I write anything about anyone I'm sure they're going to call me and like ream me out.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Like, this is fine. It doesn't show up for me in pitching. It shows up for me in publishing. Like, I... sort of just want to like hide under a rock for days after something comes out and I don't want to know what anyone thinks of it. I don't know what that is but I think it's like I think anytime I write anything about anyone I'm sure they're going to call me and like ream me out.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

It's never happened before. It's never happened but I'm just so sure. So that's probably how it shows up but then it's already out in the world so I can't do anything about it.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

It's never happened before. It's never happened but I'm just so sure. So that's probably how it shows up but then it's already out in the world so I can't do anything about it.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

When this goes up, it will have gone out. Okay, sorry.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

When this goes up, it will have gone out. Okay, sorry.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Climbing the Walls is my attempt to understand the rise in diagnosis among women, primarily during the pandemic, but it's been ongoing since the pandemic. I guess you could say it's my attempt to go beyond the headlines and the quick summaries of why so many women are being diagnosed with ADHD now. And the quick summary being... Oh, we just didn't know how it affects women.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

Climbing the Walls is my attempt to understand the rise in diagnosis among women, primarily during the pandemic, but it's been ongoing since the pandemic. I guess you could say it's my attempt to go beyond the headlines and the quick summaries of why so many women are being diagnosed with ADHD now. And the quick summary being... Oh, we just didn't know how it affects women.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And that's just, you know, in episodes one and two, we debunk that right away. I think we've known for a long time. We just weren't necessarily willing to listen.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

And that's just, you know, in episodes one and two, we debunk that right away. I think we've known for a long time. We just weren't necessarily willing to listen.

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

than that it's really really stunning work and I'm so excited for for everybody to listen to it what made you want to do this I really I think like whenever I do something that's sort of this deeper dive it's this question that I'm asking and I think one of the things I love about having this job is that I would just ask that question for another 10 years without actually digging into it yeah by having this as a job there's a reason it comes back to motivation yeah I guess totally

Climbing the Walls
Danielle’s story: A breakup, an intense reaction, and ADHD diagnosis (from “ADHD Aha!”)

than that it's really really stunning work and I'm so excited for for everybody to listen to it what made you want to do this I really I think like whenever I do something that's sort of this deeper dive it's this question that I'm asking and I think one of the things I love about having this job is that I would just ask that question for another 10 years without actually digging into it yeah by having this as a job there's a reason it comes back to motivation yeah I guess totally