Daris Whitfield
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Also, like sometimes you got to toughen up or I do think sometimes you chose to do this, too. So it's always that thing, too.
Also, like sometimes you got to toughen up or I do think sometimes you chose to do this, too. So it's always that thing, too.
It's like it was my choice. I made my bed.
It's like it was my choice. I made my bed.
Yeah. And, you know, so I'm like, I'm worried that you're going to make the choice again to do this thing, even though I tell you not to. Because you you keep like, yeah, yeah. But I think I don't know. So I don't want you to get addicted to, you know, proving something like a gambler, you know, like they keep losing, but they get addicted to the loss, too. So, yeah. Yeah.
Yeah. And, you know, so I'm like, I'm worried that you're going to make the choice again to do this thing, even though I tell you not to. Because you you keep like, yeah, yeah. But I think I don't know. So I don't want you to get addicted to, you know, proving something like a gambler, you know, like they keep losing, but they get addicted to the loss, too. So, yeah. Yeah.
I just hope you figure it.
I just hope you figure it.
the hell out so I'm thinking that I want to host a contest because okay wait why do you think we're both single?
the hell out so I'm thinking that I want to host a contest because okay wait why do you think we're both single?
I mean, you're single because, I mean, for the same reason.
I mean, you're single because, I mean, for the same reason.
I'm interested in this.
I'm interested in this.
No, I think because of our past trauma. Yeah, childhood. I think that's why. I think it's hard for us to make commitments to people. I think we assume the worst is going to happen. Yeah. That nothing we want is going to.
No, I think because of our past trauma. Yeah, childhood. I think that's why. I think it's hard for us to make commitments to people. I think we assume the worst is going to happen. Yeah. That nothing we want is going to.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
And I'm trying to fight all that stuff, but yeah. And I also think I'm a very difficult person to deal with, like, long term. I mean, I'm like you, people are like, oh, you know, he's blah, blah, blah. But, you know, I used to be different too, obviously, right? But, like, even now, I like to be left alone, and I don't like putting up with people's shit, as you know.
And I'm trying to fight all that stuff, but yeah. And I also think I'm a very difficult person to deal with, like, long term. I mean, I'm like you, people are like, oh, you know, he's blah, blah, blah. But, you know, I used to be different too, obviously, right? But, like, even now, I like to be left alone, and I don't like putting up with people's shit, as you know.