Dave Evans

It's just true.

So if I accept that and then say, oh, and I'm responsible for attending to that in as efficient a way as I possibly can, now it's actually okay.

So...

When your roommate accepts Thursdays and then even says, and I'm going to be available to noticing that I can do that really well.

And after I've done that, well, pat myself on the back for being an ubermensch.

Yeah.

I changed my experience of my life.

Your mindset really matters.

Give me the other elements of mindset.

We actually double down on one.

So having a wondrous mindset, a high availability to wonder at all times.

So wonder, radical acceptance, availability, as I've just described.

The next one is fully engaged, calmly detached.

And the last one is create your world, which really means create your story.

So fully engaged, calmly detached is all about, again, it's a flow orientation that would say, you know,

I want to be entirely present to what I'm doing.

I want to both bring the best I can to it, and I want to have the most alive making experience of what I'm doing by being fully engaged.

However, I'm also going to recognize that while I'm fully engaged, I don't control outcomes.

So as soon as I get fully engaged, I really care.

I really want it to work.