Dave Ramsey

But if you're prohibited from doing that because you don't have a relationship with the grandchildren's parents, then you can't do that.

So you're prohibited in terms of having an influence with them, okay?

And so...

You're under no obligations, and there's a lot of pain, and it's very difficult to weed through all of that and find something.

The only thing I would throw in is just I have never – I mean, when you write this down, it's as if it's done.

OK, until you change it again.

OK, if you die before you change it, it's going to be done.

And so in a sense, when I write down something on my will or in my estate plan, I consider it done until I change it.

So I have to be willing to, quote, die with it, not live with it.

Right.

So in that sense, OK.

One of my things, and I do this with team members that are leaving.

I do it with anything that's a situation like this.

I have never regretted generosity.

And generosity is a form of grace, and that is undeserved.

That's what grace is.

It's undeserved.

Your daughters don't deserve this money based on the fact that they have not reached out, have not created a relationship in their life.

And as adults, they're old enough to have gotten away from people in their ear, to have healed from whatever happened 30 years ago or whatever else, and established some kind of relationship.

They're not in a deserving role.