Dave Ramsey

Nicole is in Boston.

Hi, Nicole.

How are you?

Sure.

What's up?

as risky I don't want to take risks well it's not the risk it's the get rich quick right the get rich quick I'm not a fan of that strategy so here's the deal you're not called to respect your husband if every time he gets in a car he drives it into a ditch you go you suck at driving

That's not disrespectful of your husband as a husband.

It's disrespectful of his driving ability because he sucks at driving.

So don't get this confused that somehow respect is I'm supposed to turn a blind eye to idiocy.

That's not respect.

That's just enabling.

Then when you give respect and you give a compliment for something that he actually does right, we don't know if it's real because you also endorse stupid stuff and call it respect.

No, no, he can't drive a car.

He keeps running in the ditch.

Honey, you need driving lessons, and I'm not riding with your butt until you learn how to drive.

You suck at driving.

That's not really, I mean, some version of that, nicer than that, is not disrespectful.

That's not disrespecting the position of that you love your man, you love your husband, you think he's a good guy.

That's just telling the truth.

It's just he sucks at driving.