Dave Ramsey

You got to get through.

You got to get this thing in gear.

Your business sucks.

You are not making any money.

You're starving to death.

You're making a dollar an hour and you're working your legs off.

So you got to get that profitability up this coming year or you got to go get it like a real job and shut this thing down because you're not making any money.

So let me ask you this.

So can we classify the fact that you were homeless as a child as trauma?

Would it be OK to call it that?

Yeah.

It was traumatic, not just dramatic.

Yeah.

So that's what makes you think about losing your home and wanting to pay it off before you pay off all this other stuff, right?

Yeah.

Okay.

Well, what happened when you were a child has no bearing on what happens to you as an adult unless you repeat exactly the same patterns.

And so Dr. Deloney says he does a lot of trauma work.

John Deloney that's on the air here with us.

He says when you've had trauma and your body starts thinking you're right back there again and your shoulders rise up and you get tense across the neck and your heartbeat changes and your eyes start to dilate because it feels like it felt when you were a kid, but nothing like when you were a kid was going on, then you need to stop and say facts are your friends.