Dave Ramsey

If you can't suck it up and run the gauntlet for 18 months and clear the student loan, then the second thing, that's actually the best thing.

But that's very hard to do.

And I'm not saying everybody can do that.

And I'm not saying you have to.

I'm just saying that's option one.

That's actually plan A. Okay.

Plan B would be how can we utilize the law degree, maybe make more, but maybe make a little less.

and be in a situation where I can actually breathe and I'm not just about to punch everybody out because I'm so stressed out all the time and I'm trying to raise a baby.

And so that's cool.

That's fine.

So that's position B. But I'm not going all the way to position Z where we do nothing.

You gave up the option of being a full-time mom, sit at home with the baby when you made the decision to go $115,000 in debt.

You gave that up.

I mean, that's kind of why I went to law school.

You need option B. You need an option that will allow you to.

Well, and here's the thing.

If you can get a real clear picture, like actually go interview for the job,

for option B and it, and you know, it's there.

Sometimes if I have at least that, I don't, I don't feel as trapped and then I can gut something out for a little while longer.

Yeah.