Dave Ramsey

Okay.

We have a family member that had a small business.

One of the brothers was involved in the small business.

The rest of the family was not.

And when the dad sold the small business, he gave half of it to the brother, and he told everybody.

But he didn't ask everybody's permission.

He said, this is my freaking money, and this is what I'm doing.

He didn't say it that way.

He just did it.

and then just said, this is what happened.

And then you get to choose, if you're the brother or the sister then, whether you're going to have a hissy fit about somebody else doing what they want to do with their money.

Okay.

Yeah, I know that makes perfect sense.

Thank you so much.

Yeah, just lots of clarity and kindness and legacy.

What you described had no malice, no theft.

No weirdness.

You're probably coming out on the short end of the stick, except you really want to love your mom and dad well through this legacy stage of their life, and good on you.

And let me go ahead and just, this is happening all over America at this moment.

this scenario and for you brothers and sisters out there that the other sibling is the one stepping up and gonna do the doctor's visits and gonna be in the house making sure stuff gets cleaned up and gonna make sure the bills get paid and they end up with more than you and you're not there shut up