Dave Ramsey

And so figuring that out.

But in the meantime, you and your kids, yeah, financially to keep you safe.

Because you want to keep the lights on, right?

And you just continue to dig deeper.

Food on the table.

And where you can control is...

cutting up the credit cards, getting all the credit cards out, you guys together, cutting everything up, stopping access points.

Now, could he go apply for something in his own right and secret?

Sure.

But you can't control that.

What can you do today?

And as much as you can figure out where there is money for him to outsource, stop it at where it begins.

But I'm so sorry, Sadie.

This is a...

This is deteriorating before your very eyes.

And we may see it more clearly than you do in the sense that we're not.

I don't think we're overreacting on.

I think you're underreacting.

And so it's so overwhelming, you know, not not having the three kids and thinking, what's my exit plan?

If this were the case, I mean, that is so that is so scary and overwhelming to even think about.